The first thing I learned is that you have to become clean before you canbecome responsible because if you marry or build a family with a corrupt heart, you will abuse your husband or wife and you will abuse your children. Both actions will damn you to hell. Until you develop a stable character that is unchanging and secure and modest and strong and not succumbing to temptations and social influences, you are in no position for marriage or family.
The second thing I learned is that you have to remove your bias before you can accept Inspiration or gain new revelation. If you do not clean yourself of bias before studying the bible, the knowledge you gain will produce anger and rage both in yourself and in others towards you and the knowledge and inspiration you gain will become corrupted or ruined or become an unpleasant burden that hurts and harms you rather than a utility you can use to improve your life and the society at large.