What I notice about Successful Christians I talk to

[jennifer_bloom]

The most successful Christian doctors I know, the ones with amazing social relationships, happy families, good personalities and not just good jobs and finances have one thing in common: They have a high degree of respect for others, and if religious, they have a high degree of respect for God and religious ideas.

Like there was a non religious person who despised me and said I was a loser for studying humanities in university, while all these STEM guys and doctor guys treated me like I had just climbed Mount Everest for focusing on a humanities major in school.

I think these doctors respected my career more than I did, and no matter how bad I was, these Ivy League guys never looked down on me or considered me unworthy of their time and respect, it was the average intelligence and middle class people who avoided me and thought I was a loser, the ultra elite always respected me, not because I’m special but they are God fearing people who respect all that do not harm others.

[Anonymous]

That is how it is. People believe the more money you have or the better you are at something, the more of an asshole you are but it is usually the opposite. People who do good don't look down on anyone because you realize anyone could have done what you did. But you don't understand that until you are seen as the top by other people. People worship people that don't deserve it. Anyone can be great or make money etc. Hell I can tell people how to easily become a million or make well over 6 figures but like I said they don't believe it because they have never been to the top. Once u are there u realize it is a joke and that everyone can could these things that seem so above them.

[jgibsonian1986]

Humility and self scrutiny will do that to a person.

[LivyLiv]

Yeah those are some lesson I've learned from going to church a lot

[jgibsonian1986]

Must be a good church then, all the ones near me act more like country clubs than a church.