How to know when a romance is not God’s will

[jennifer_bloom]

The bible says that God does not encourage disobedience to God so if you can’t attract a guy without breaking moral codes, social norms or righteous behavioural norms, than that is a man that God does not want you to be with because if God chose him for you, you won’t need a satin dress or an expensive perfume to get his attention. WomN are born with natural beauty, not just visually but socially and emotionally and a woman who seeks God is beautiful inside, even if she puts no effort whatsoever into attracting the right man, so woman must not compromise to get the guy because the man God gives you will not need or want your compromise and you might lose him if you do choose to compromise.

[spiralshape]

I completely, 100, I should say 110% (even though there technically is no such thing) agree with your statements!! I say it to myself every day, money DOES NOT grow on trees. I do not need myself a gold digger.

If she gives off that "he needs to buy me chocolate or take me to a club with $500 in his pocket" kinda vibe then F*** NO.

[ohshee]

All that is saying is that don't sell yourself short don't do stupid things to attract a man.
We are all a piece of God we have God within us I don't care who you are or what you believe in it you spent nine months in water in the water in the fluid of your mother water holds memory God got water from the heavens God bless the water water gives life we all have God within us if you drink water each and every day you are drinking part of God is you are drinking part of everybody that has touched water because water holds memory anyway forget about that if you have common sense did you can hear yourself if you know wrong from right and a few other things and you understand who a person is on the inside not on the outside but on the inside. And the same thing goes for a man can you truly understand that the person that you are going to date and be with is not the person that you see it's the person on the inside and I believe you have been put together 40 reason but don't compromise find out for yourself before you do anything crazy

Let me give you an example two people making love one minute before they're both going to have an orgasm you get this feeling of beauty rushing through your body's you both become one that's each other's energy becoming one together is the most beautiful feeling in the world 98% of people on this planet I think that feeling is love when they show that they call it love it's not love it is two energies becoming one you can have it with anybody why you wait until one minute before you both going to have an orgasm I don't understand it's not love that's compromising yourself right there by believing in that

If everything you said above is true I have to remind you that when we are born we are all given a gift that gift with the gift of choice more powerful than the word love choice we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do every step we take every day is a choice Love is Easy Love is a compromise same with choice

[iamjustaman]

You are very correct here, as Paul talked about the secret person of the heart as true beauty and not luxury hair, jewelry, or makeup.

As a side point, God's will is that all sorts of people come to have an accurate knowledge about him and his son Jesus and be saved. So God's will isn't involved in who you marry, but he does set out guidelines and principles that can help you choose such as the ones you mentioned.

A side note to my side note, we live in a very permissive world as far as morals go. So it is best to know what you want from a mate and be clear about what you will or will not do. Direct conversation should take place on the matter, and since men are visually stimulated, don't be surprised if he may have improper feelings, thoughts, or desires. As you said, as long as he is not trying to force things, you can be ok.

When one falls the other will raise him up and the two will have a good reward for their work.

[Massageman]

It's hard to "prove" a negative, ie that the relationship is NOT God's will - - - other than if it isn't, then He will open another door to other relationship.

(personal aside). Interesting that you asked this right now- I was just looking at the movie "Marry Me" where a betrayed pop star marries a random "normal" guy and somehow (we are led to believe) it works out for the better. See how those doors opener a reason?

[DiegoO]

When you hear God's voice and you gotta start taking meds to cool down is tone.

[DiegoO]

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[UpdateGloomyNights_]

Good My take

[EzNamirimEzDibirim]

Good take..