Why did God make things not fair for girls?

[ElizaPam]

[jgokgotit]

It wasn't God that made things unfair. Adam and Eve did when they disobeyed God. What happened to humankind since was not punishment from God, but a natural reaction to Adam and Eve's actions. Think of it like touching a stove after mom told you not to then your hand gets burned. Your hand did not get burned because your mom wanted you to burn your hand. Your hand got burned because that's the natural effect of touching the hot surface. Same thing with Adam and Eve. If you pay close attention to Genesis, Adam and Eve did NOT take the first bite of the forbidden fruit at the same time. EVE took the first bite, then took the apple to Adam. When Eve offered the apple to Adam, he raised an objection and was convinced by Eve to take a bite as she took a 2nd bite. Yes, Adam was wrong as well, but Eve disobeyed God TWICE while Adam did so ONCE. Of course God would punish Eve more harshly than Adam because she was a repeat offender. It's not that God made things unfair to women. It's that the woman (Eve) exposed herself to more unpleasant consequences than the man (Adam).

[Am_and_Pm]

TF,

Ladies.
U have more power than u think. However, y'all choose to be do things that make guys crazy.

As in, when a dude is "love" (I'm speaking from experience). We will cross a fucking ocean. But, when my heart got broken. By multiple ladies. All that went to hell. And now, I get it. It's not a girl or boy problem. It's a culture issue. They want us to be bad. Human nature. I guess in the end it has to go bad before it can be good. I like to think of it his way. A really good guy knows what true evil looks like. And a real bad guy knows what tire good looks like. I do. I've going for both. What else can I do?

[devilish-cutie]

All this guys writing about how not having sex is tragic for them
Guys, plenty of girls are virgins as they cannot find the right partner either, they wouldn't fuck anyone just as you wouldn't fuck any girl. If you had no standards i guarantee ud find a girl to fuck, so you are being delusional
She is obviously speaking about how women are physically weaker then men and can be beatena and raped. Besides they have to bleed every month and if they want to have a kid they have to give birth wich is sp painful that some women even die
So what so harh on your plate by nature?

[koolkapy69]

sex is one thing, i don't have any standards yet im still a virgin. Women have a fantasy of being raped these days apparently, every single day you get a new case false rape accusation, bleeding is not harsh on women but the birth point is only valid one.

"So what so harsh on your plate by nature?" the question should be what isn't. The laws have given women all the power, women can vote for some reason apparently, the man has to work harder in jobs to get paid equally to women, more male are reported for crimes while females are let go, more men are raped yet there is an outcry when a single woman is raped once a year but none when a guy is ( i was raped as a boy too) and sex wise men are judged by their height and their dick size (I am 5' with 2.7" dick) yet females can be whatever size and still be admired.

I can literally go on for pages why being a girl is much easier, I even wish to be transformed into a girl overnight just so I can live a much easier life

[TonyV]

I can promise you many men would have sex with any women of they had the chance.

See that's the difference, many men have absolutley no options, women however always have options, they may turn them down cause all the men talking to them are horny fuckboys or assholes or whatever but lots of guys get literally no options so it osnt the same.

I will admit some guys struggling deserve to struggle, some have real bad ideas on how to talk to women, but the women who have equally bad ideas could go out to a bar tonight and get laid if they wanted too so again it's not the same.

[devilish-cutie]

There are plenty of desperate women that would have sex with anyone so you always have the option too

Men sure have their share of hardships in the world, no dubt, but my opinion base on what i wrote makes them in natural disadvantage. We are not talking about any laws here that are men made but natural predisposition.

[devilish-cutie]

makes women in natural disadvantage*

[TonyV]

No doubt there are women who can not get laid to safe their life, but for the most part I think women choose not to cause all the men after them just want sex, or some other unfavorable character flaw, I just feel there are more men in the situation of literally can't find any women to have sex with them but you are right, there are a few women in the same situation.
Dont get me wrong I'm mature enough (now) to realize there is more important things than sex but for a while there I would have had sex with literally any woman who would actually say yes cause I'm just tired of being a virgin, I want to experience what almost everyone else has.
I get that most women dont find me attractive at only 5'9" and I was a fat guy but it seems women have it easier seeing as how plenty of women even more overweight than me can get laid, talking about women so over weight they didn't even know they were pregnant till the baby came, not to body shame but I'm I really less attractive than that?

It was pretty cool that you disagreed and talked to me without getting mad at me, seems like so many people would have snapped at me for having a different opinion so it was refreshing to have a civilized chat with someone who has a different opinion, have a nice day.🙂

[devilish-cutie]

@TonyV i completely understand the frustration with sex but i dont think that worse then being physicaly weaker than another gender, fearing rape, giving birth and bleeding every month.

Yeah, i think its hard for most people to be respectful to someone even if they disagree. You to have a nice day! :)

[moviedude714]

That's because it's impossible for a woman to be an incel

[devilish-cutie]

@moviedude714 it is actually possible

[moviedude714]

I still find that hard to believe

[devilish-cutie]

@moviedude714 yeah its not all as it seems
Look at it like this, women can say guys can always rape if they want sex
But normal guy wouldn't want that cause it wouldn't make them feel good
Guys can also always go and pay a hooker
Yet not every guy would feel good about that
So saying women can always get sex isn't also that simple cause often they can't cause they want a guy that doesn't want them or is taken or whatever. So having sex w someone else wouldn't make them feel good

[JuneLady]

I think he made things perfectly fair - as long as you don't look at it from the masculine perspective. If strength and aggression were the only things that mattered, we definitely got the short end of the stick. But we have compassion, aesthetic, gentleness, influence, coordination, etc.

[illuminatiii]

Yeah, women rule.

[ohshee]

I think God gave us he gives us the freedom of choice he puts things down for this gives us a choice and it's usually something to teach us and just think if he didn't give us a dog man's best friend if he wouldn't have given us that dog I don't think men would understand unconditional love and just think how barbaric we would still be I think no matter what situation we have in life it's up to us individually to feel it the way we want to feel it to see it the way we want to see it and in a positive way change it if it's not up to our standards are our liking any negative ways just hold you back it holds everybody back and once in a negative thought enters into the equation it just pushes everything back more and more the only way to get things done is to go positive no matter what you might feel in that moment you have to find the positive way is going back hold you back

[Sonorous]

I like to believe that "God" is not what we think it is, and the world doesn't revolve around us. Life, though it can bring happiness, is not phased by unhappiness. It's effected, not affected. So fairness isn't the goal. The main purpose of our lives (based on what we can observe) is to stay alive and reproduce. So, any means of doing so will be adapted to and will become our "norm." And if this form fails, then new ones will sprout up under different circumstances. And if not, then so be it. We are pieces of a universe of seeming indifference.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. God is a male so he made life much easier for guys and he doesn't care so much about girls.

OR. . . the other possible explanation is

2. Your perception is naturally skewed because of your perspective and you think boys have it much easier in life when they really don't.

Which do you think is the more likely explanation?

[MCheetah]

1. It is objectively EASIER to be a woman in society than men because women get pregnant and men don't, meaning they are literally more important to the human species, thus more protected and coddled, which they clearly are. Only a feminist would think otherwise.
2. You've said in several posts you're not a girl. You're a transwoman.

[Effably]

As in the biblical reason? Didn't God make Man and Woman to be equal at first and then Adam lost his mind and complained Lilith insisted she should be on top during sex? God who supposedly doesn't do sex himself took him at his word and made Eve who was made more submissive and less of a cowgirl.
I mean, silly as it sounds these are actual listed reasons in the (old-old) bible.

[hopegirly]

What do you mean with “fair for girls”? I believe that boys and girls were made by a design and it is pretty perfect in this nature. We just need to understand that boys and girls are different, we will never be the same and all of us have our nature and we need to respect this.

[razelove]

Enlighten me, what unfair barriers, trials and tribulations are you facing that are impossible for a man to be facing? Hell, even simply improbable.

Life isn't "fair" for anyone by the by, we all have strengths and weaknesses. I can make rockets, but I can't remember my own birthday. Thems the breaks.

[Citizenkirk]

Maybe God wanted girls too experience real life like the rest of us imperfect beings, so that girls would have the opportunity too experience the victory of overcoming adversity and the joys of surviving an unfair world with an equally imperfect partner of the opposite gender at her side, watching her back while she watches his, as they face the challenges of an unfair world together.

[jasco]

Life isn't fair for men either. God needed balance not competition. Before technology was around, men and women could not compete as equal because a majority were men not women. Therefore the men hunted and women stayed at home. So why would you want to make things fair when your only source of making a baby is dead, why not leave her at home.

[jasco]

but that was than and this is now, women you have far more chances of getting what you want, granted so do men but we have to work slightly harder at it than some. men and women are more or less equal. Its more of choices than sexism

[DiscomfortZone]

1. "God" is a made belief invention created by weaklings too pathetic to cope with basic existential fears and traded by the sharletans who invented "religion". It is stupid to believe in such a made up concept

2. You make it difficult for yourself, nothing/nobody else does. Stop makingnsuch sad excuses for your shortcomings.

[jgokgotit]

As a former Atheist who has survived what should physically be impossible to survive, I can definitely tell you that you are very far off base with this post. Your 2nd point is a fair one, but your first point is as far from the truth as you can possibly get.

[DiscomfortZone]

Don't use words you don't understand, like "truth".

[jgokgotit]

I understand truth better than you do. First, I am willing to have an open mind. Second, I've been to war and therefore seen human nature in its true form. Third, I've had the benefit of being both an atheist and believer instead of just the closed-mind perspective most atheists have.

[DiscomfortZone]

1. Legitimizing the psychotic illusions of mad people doesn't make you open minded, it makes you an imbacile.
2. I come from a traditional Jewish family.
3. I'm from Israel, we have mandatory military service and our wars put yours to shame (ask your commanding officer).

So you see, despite your pathetic attempt, you've got nothing on me. So let's get back to you not using words you don't understand, like "truth". Moron.

[cheapshotbob]

because girls were beguiled by a snake , and if you go by some myths of the catholic
belief Lilith was the first rebellious woman which is why god then made eve from his rib. if you believe that lie lol

[Billie_]

Because God is the devil. He is the true asshole in the Bible. He allows his son to get killed when he could have prevented this. He allows bad things to happen to good people because he thinks its funny.

[Ifriqyan]

I'm not sure about that tbh
In most religions men were the ones expected to go to war and die at war. They were also expected to be the main or sole bread winner.

[EyesOfGod]

And now that the most time consuming home chores are done by machines you can just sit back and watch Hulu.

[JDavid25]

He didn't.. He made men and women to be each other's strengths and weaknesses.. Also women have it easier as society is looking out for them, and so do most men.. Many are living on recruit difficulty.. 😂😂

[ThisAndThat]

In what way are things unfair for girls? Please elaborate.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/4dToyAkY56o

[Daniel_Dano]

Actually God made things better for women.

In islam women can more easily go to heaven by simply being mothers as mothers are highly valued in islam.

When man and woman get married its on the man to pay for everything even if she was rich.

Mens lives are harsher and we deal with a lot of things which women don't.

[slatyb]

Life is so much easier to understand when you realize that God isn’t real.

[mistixs]

This is an interesting article on that topic http://christianthinktank.com/made4pain.html

[mistixs]

That's if you're approaching it from a biblical perspective, in which case the sentence upon the man is actually worse than the sentence upon the woman. The same word used to describe the woman's toil in childbearing is used to describe the man's entire life, and the man's curse is 3 verses long compared to the woman's which is 1 verse long.

[TheSpaceGnome]

God doesn't exist, and fairness is taken, not given.
Stand up for yourself.

[Phoenix98]

Aside from your question being false in every way. Are you going to provide examples, evidence, etc to support your claim/argument or are we just suppose to take you at your word?

[Anonymous]

I think you're talking about islam where women are often seen as inferior to men, they also say that women should be obedient to men, also say that if wife don't obey, husband can literally beat his wife until she obeys him.

[red324]

Why are things not fair? You get sex at the drop of a hat, plenty of guys are fine working while you stay home all day running errands and shopping, then to run home at 4:45 so you can whip up a quick dinner assuming you even are able to.

[snowboarder720]

Heads up, it isn’t just sunshine and rainbows being a dude.

[DiscomfortZone]

Come on, don't spoil it for the self-victimizers!

[YOLOIFIC]

They didn’t, god is made up. People made things unfair for women because our culture especially thousands of years ago was very patriarchal.

[daydreammarie]

You can thank Eeeeeve!!! I wouldn't call it unfair persay though. I think its actual amazing what the female body can do.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

You do know that the only religion that is fair to women is Wicka?

[ElizaPam]

That's a fake religion Jesus is the truth

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

I think all of them are fake , and it’s more about interpreting who is the author and what are their intentions/ agenda. With mono theistic religions it’s men and in the case of Christianity it’s because they left the gospel of Mary out. It’s a gnostic gospel and it is more about Mary Magdalene having a special spiritual relationship with Christ.

In the case of the Old Testament, it was written by many Jewish Scholars and it was edited several times. But they too also weren’t keen on women. They probably just saw women as child bearing possessions and made up something about the menstrual cycle being unclean.

It’s also clear whoever wrote Genesis was a sexist prick. Adam Ate the fruit too and didn’t ask Eve any questions. To make up that the fact women experience the pain of child birth because of “original sin” is disgusting , it’s a failure to understand basic biology and trying to explain it with a sexist and primitive myth.

Especially since ancient religions had a bit more respect towards female goddesses and child birth in general.

[ElizaPam]

Jesus is King

[jshm2]

He did. Which is why you get strange guys that want to be girls.

[koolkapy69]

we're not strange tho I was forced to be a girl as a kid and now I love it

[Vviiccttoorr]

@koolkapy69 really? How so?

[koolkapy69]

@Vviiccttoorr long story short my mom wanted a daughter and got depressed when she found out it was well me but pretended I was a daughter to her for 12 years until I learned science and well can't say I didn't enjoy that.

[maryisbreathing]

Because there is no god

And it's not like things are unfair anyway, there are huge downsides to being either gender

[Anonymous]

The expectation for life to be fair for anyone is unrealistic. The world is competitive in every way, so fairness isn't part of the game. You take your advantages and you run with them and do the best you can.

[ADFSDF1996]

Because Eve disobeyed first by eating the apple from the tree of knowledge.

[ADFSDF1996]

Read Genesis 3:16

[mistixs]

Funny God gave women toil in childbirth but gave men toil their entire lives. (Between Gen 3:17-19. Men's curse is 3 verses long while women's is 1 verse long.)

[mistixs]

I don't mean it's actually funny by the way. I just get frustrated with the whole "women are cursed because of Eve" thing being taken out of the overall context.

[ADFSDF1996]

@mistixs

That’s also taken out of context as well, it’s simply referring to men basically having to do all the heavy lifting.

[ADFSDF1996]

@mistixs

Then again it could also explain why society treats men as expendable.

[NoManToo]

Not fair?

A girl can get laid any time she wants. Guys can't.

But seriously, the bullshit with Trans people wanting to allow people with penises to play on high school and college female sports teams is unfair.

[whitehide]

Depends on which god you're talking about. The abrahamic god got pissy because Eve ate a fruit.

[Agape93]

Because god didn’t make anything. That’s just what he’s claiming he’s done.

[Jac2424]

There is no god. History and natural selection made things unfair for girls.

[RealMarek]

Life is unfair for most people, both men and women, as a consequence of human imperfection, which is not God’s fault.

[Shellyworld]

You have been brainwashed by the crazies. Religion is about peace and the rest is nonsense because God loves everyone

[locutus9999]

only 10 rules. thats all... al the rest was added by other humans that were as lost as we are.

[will34]

You can’t really blame stuff on woman though just saying because Adam and Eve should have known something different about that serpent number one it talks and number 2 it is intelligent that’s not normal you don’t see talking animals

[lucyloo76]

He did , it's men that are not following God's rules.

[_no_one_]

Ask him,
Well if he exists.
Humans can't answer someone's personal shit. We can just assume and imagine.

[Floppy2112]

lol... Cause Eve ate the forbidden fruit first. You got periods and painful childbirth for that move...

[genericname85]

god doesn't make anything xD and what exactly is "not fair"?

[beldath]

I think the real question is, why do you think that is? How did you come to this conclusion?

[Anonymous]

Be glad that as a woman, you control the access to sex or sexual relations, because this obviously happens to men far more than women, men end up still being a virgin deep or late into adulthood.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Please tell me the religion and the situation that anoy you.

[Anonymous]

What are you complaining about you got us thrown out of paradise! As far as i'm cincerned tou got off light. You ruined our life then. And since then nothing has changed! 🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

God is not fair at all. It's not about girls or boys but about each and every individual. Everyone in this world should have everything equally.
I wish I can meet God.

[Omar5881]

Why are you looking for someone to blame? Life isn't fair for anyone its stupid to think life isn't fair only specially for females

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I ask myself that question and then I remember the story of Lilith and eve.

[Anonymous]

I truly dont know what you mean when you say life is unfair for women in particular. Life is better for rich people and worse for poor people.

[Archerer]

There is no God, things are harder for women because of the way we happened to have evolved

[hello_kitty_man]

I don't believe in God, so I can not answer this question.

[SpaceGalaxy]

Because he is GOD. It is like asking "can GOD make a rock so heavy that even he himself cannot move?"

[Anonymous]

It's only fair for biological women and men by God's design. Life is guaranteed difficult against God's design.

[Anonymous]

what do you thin is cruel or unfair about being a woman? but be glad that as a woman, its impossible for a woman to be an incel

[AzzaBlue]

I wouldn't say impossible but definitely improbable.

[Opinion Owner]

@AzzaBlue so are you saying that it is possible for a woman to be an incel? female incels exist?

[AzzaBlue]

I should think so. What about a woman that is really obese and smells of BO and in addition she has a not so charming personality to match. What about that nasty feminist b! tch Chanty Binx aka "Big Red." I wouldn't want to go anywhere near such a person as I feel that I would catch something nasty. My point is that there some really disgusting people out there.

[BeachLuvR97]

You are not a girl. You will always be chromosome Y.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not sure what you're talking about as in not fair. God punished both Adam and Eve for their sin.

[Jakeofalltrades93]

because it was eve that listened to the serpent and first ate the forbidden fruit

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Probably part of the punishment or something, I don’t know. Ask him maybe.

[David_Bayer]

God was created by ancient people and equal rights are quite modern idea.

[Anonymous]

Fair is a very childish concept. It's neither here nor there.