What should my boyfriend and I do during Ramadan?

[Anonymous]

we are both muslim and like haven't been going out long, only 4 months. We are both virgins but like we have done a lot of sexual stuff. I want to get married but waiting on him basically. Ramadan is coming up. I know we are both going to be more religious. I was thinking we pray together and he LOL'd in my face or like read Quran. I would be ok doing some sexual stuff in Ramadan (after the fast) but I don't know what his thoughts are. He's like more religious and less religious than me in certain things. I feel like a lot of guys easy break up way is to be like I need to take a break for ramadan. I'm scared to see if he'll just break up with me. Is that common in Ramadan for guys to break up with girls? I've heard it happen to two girls I know.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ayy yo sis don't even stress about Ramadan too much feel me? Like yeah things might be a little different than usual but thats only for like a month, after that you guys can go back to how you been. And honestly I dont think your mans tryna break up fr, y'all been together now for almost half a year so he must really fuck with you. Plus you said he's more religious than you sometimes so I'm sure he's tryna do Ramadan right just like you tryna do.

My advice would be to just talk to him straight up, let him know how you feelin about things and also listen to where he's at too ya feel me? Compromise is key, maybe tone down the sexual stuff for Ramadan but doesn't mean you can't still chill and spend time together. Prayer together is a vibe, maybe study some Quran too or just chillin watching movies after sunset to break the fast. Cooking meals for each other is always nice too.

Don't stress yourself thinkin he gon break up, just take it a day at a time with him. Focus on gettin closer to Allah together through worship and good deeds. If you're both comin from a place of sincerity I'm sure you guys'll be straight. Ramadan only 30 days it'll fly by. Just communicate openly without assumptions and InshaAllah it'll strengthen what you got goin on instead of hurting it ayy. Keep ya head up sis you got this!

[MrZameer]

It's not allowed to do anything sexual before marriage in ISLAM.
ISLAM don't allow to live together before marriage.
You both should marry first and then live together.
If you are doing Fast in the day, and doing sexual stuff with your boyfriend then you will get more sins than goodness.
If you guys are living together then why are you not getting married? You should get married as early as possible.
If you wanna do sexual stuff then get married as soon as possible. l

[Asker]

we are not living together. I want to get married but im waiting for him

[MrZameer]

but you people are doing sexual stuff (not sex) before marriage and it's Haram (not allowed) in Islam

[MrZameer]

You both should stop it, and ask him to get married, and say him that you won't do anything before marriage.

[MrZameer]

I'm also a Muslim.
You are Muslim, I'm Muslim. So you are my sister dear.

[MrZameer]

I'm sure you knew that it's Haram in Islam to do any sexual stuff before marriage.

[MrZameer]

My sweet sister, please take this serious

[Asker]

I really want to though better him than mess around with random multiple men. I already told him he can't have my virginity. my husband can have that wedding day

[MrZameer]

Sister can you follow me.

[MrZameer]

Wdym by mess around with random multiple men?

[Asker]

followed u

[MrZameer]

are you with name of kareena?

[MrZameer]

Thanks for MHO

[xnwkwjfir]

I hate islam, quran and muslims. U r all fucked brained low creatures. Stupid ugly people of the world. U worship fat ass arabic old man with white beard, white haired Testicled creature.

U little brained ugly creatures ur mosques, clothes and azan is ugly like u.

Muslim retarded old men get married with 6 years old girls. And they abuse children (boys and girls) And u worship to same contemptible f***** arabic god-allah. Allah is a bitch that u created in ur stupid minds to allow men fuck every child and woman. Low creatures u are biggest mistakes of the universe. U dont deserve luxury life.

Fuck ur ramadan shit. We dont give a shit ur stupid fucking sex life. U r disgusting like other muslim creatures.

[xnwkwjfir]

f*****= faggøt :)

[strateguy632]

from what i understood islam is as zameer here accurately described, virgin is only part but also no oral bj etc. sexual stuff, all year.

if believe ramadan, you skip meals and don't drink even water until dark. it is about self denial and self control and submit not about "healthy cleansing" whatever.

[jshm2]

You both need to grow the fuck up and concentrate on living your lives properly.