Do you believe our loved ones can protect us from the grave?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to sound like a lunatic but ever since childhood, I've had certain things happening to me that have no scientific explanation. I can't contribute good luck too much because it's too much of a coincidence.

I'm only going to share the latest paranormal event:

I was dating my then boyfriend for a bit over a year. Whenever he would visit my house, he claimed to feel a bad presence. Strangely it was only happening towards him (and when he was alone) but no one else, not even me. I went out shopping briefly and when I came back, my late maternal grandfather's portrait fell. My boyfriend claimed it fell down just a couple feet from him, all the glasses broke. After a couple more occurences (on his last claim, he saw the shadowy figure of a young, tall man staring at him seriously, then vanishing), he left claiming my house was haunted and we broke up shortly afterwards.

Fast-forward to late Now of 2023:

I find out through 3 different women that he was very abusive and has been previously arrested for drug possession. If what he claimed was true then I can only conclude grandpa saw he was no good and was scaring him away. I feel the total opposite of what he claimed, comfortable and warm. For me it's a warm presence.

Do you believe our loved ones can protect us from the grave?

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His description of the tall, shadowy figure did matched grandpa.

[Pterodon]

I don’t know if it’s our loved ones but I’m a true romantic and I believe we do have guardian angels

[Asker]

Even though I've never personally seen a ghost nor heard objects moving, I've felt protected and a warm presence several times in my life that I can't explain it. For me it is exactly the last two words in your sentence, as if I really had a guardian angel in my life.
I think that ghost scaring my ex boyfriend away might've been my grandpa, maybe.

[Asker]

He loved me very much when he was alive (I was too young to remember though; I was only 3 when he died) and base on what my parents and relatives said, he would've sacrificed his life if it meant saving me. It makes sense he would've never wanted anyone that wants to harm me.

[strateguy632]

grave? we all die.

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't believe that

[Asker]

I don't really know what to think though. Several times in my life I've felt comfortable and protected, as if there was a warm presence.

[jahaims]

No lmfao