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So my boyfriend is having some work issues & today he made a comment if I can't wait 1-2 days for a response maybe I should walk away. He forgets I waited 2 months for him to get sorted earlier in the year - he's still not sorted out - with barely any communication from him.

See it's frustrating because he's trying to shoulder everything himself - though I am more than able to assist him (it's the way he grew up I think, his mum wasn't educated & dad died young so he had to "be an adult" before his time) - and because of this he's causing excessive strain to himself. Instead of asking for help or taking the help I am offering.

And today I made it clear I WANT to help you. And yet rethinking what he said earlier - about walk if can't wait 2 days for a response when I waited 2 months earlier - it's like would he actually appericate that help or would he just used it and when sort out leave / break up.

Or would it be better to just... walk away. I mean you can't force someone to accept your help and if they don't want it, what is there.

2 guy friends, a possibility of dating?

Both guys I've known online for 2 years, we talk on and off, with our good and bad weeks. I've met them eavh individually once, very different kind of days out and different guys.

Number (1) and I share a lot in common its almost strange. We share the same values and he's very mature. I can see something long-term with him. The only downside is that the differences we do have we argue over. He also has autism which means that there are constant communication issues. I feel like we're both very submissive people but that could be potentially comforting. There was no pfp when I started talking to him, so I talked to him for the conversation. In some ways I find him attractive, but it's 50/50.

Number (2) and I share almost nothing in common, although we seem to be able to communicate very easily. Once talking we are both there for each other emotionally and are passionate about our ideas. The downside with him is that I feel I'm constantly struggling to make conversation as it revolves around him. If a relationship were to evolve it would be short term. He is more dominant than myself. I started talking to him originally because he was attractive.