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One of the reasons men get so angry over the friendzone is not because we lost our opportunity to be more than friends. Rejection burns but that is just a fact of life for more most men. Dating is like being a door to door salesman to us. Its up to us to make it happen and if we get a no then we want to move on ASAP until we eventually hear a yes. The disinterested girl is now just a liability if we continue to waste our time and energy on her.

Anyway the real reason we get angry about the friendzone is we feel like our masculinity isn’t being respected. Respecting a man surely doesn’t mean dating him, having sex and/or getting a relationship. Its understanding his gamble he took a (likely uncomfortably) by approaching you. It’s now your turn to be forthcoming about where you stand. It need to be done sooner than later.

Confidently assuming he is going to be okay with being platonic friends when it’s plain as day he wants more is disrespectful, cowardly and selfish.

While I can understand that women are nervous that men won’t take rejection well in reality most guys can take in in stride. If they do get angry or rude than take that as confirmation you made the right choice.

No the truth is most women don’t want to lose out on the benefits of having the interested guy in their orbit (attention, favors, ego boost, someone to use against you really like, etc.). They also know that interested guy will likely do more for them vs someone who isn’t. This is especially true of if they see the guy is “nice” which women either consciously or subconsciously find feminine. Most of them have no idea how deeply insulting that attitude to vast majority of hetero men.

Anyway I haven’t been “friéndzoned” in a very long time but I’ve had women attempt that crap (including grown ass women in their 30s). The attempt itself is infuriating tbh (a woman past 30 should know better. I feel there should come a point in a woman’s life where she should understand male psychology better.

I (myself) have decided to go MGTOW as I feel that women don't know what they want. Women are also shallow. They will help or support a man but they want him for his assets. As Unplugged Male by Greg Cooper states "Men view women as sex objects however Women view men has success objects".

Especially with the divorce rates at a all time high, women cheat more than men and I have even noticed that in personal experience. It makes me feel and question the need for a woman. There more single mothers too. Meaning successful men over 30 will be left with someone else's responsibilities.

Women from another post I have seen on here SHOULD in my opinion ask the men. The feminist movement believe they are "strong independent Women" so therefore they should do the effort for & in the relationship. The guy's job should be to "have fun & hook up" END OFF.

Women are annoyed that this male movement is is gaining momentum. Yet men in the past have supported the rights of women. Yet ironically they don't support this.

So why I have gone in this direction? Firstly, men who go this way are NOT gay! (That's the myth too debunked). So here are the reasons below;

▪︎Women don't know what they want.
▪︎Women have made dating incredibly difficult.
▪︎Too many single mothers.
▪︎Women don't care about men & only the goods. Yet they will have either baggage or problems and expect men to accept them.
▪︎Most of the good one's have "come and gone".
▪︎Some Women have unreasonable & unrealistic expectations especially with the men they seek. Like a unemployed chick wanting a gym going successful guy.
▪︎Women take no accountability for the poor choices of previous relationships.
▪︎Too many unfaithful women.
▪︎The divorce rates are climbing (women)

So please feel free to fill out the poll & comment your opinions. Try to be respectful it's not like I have made a physical attack on you. This is a opinion and everyone is entitled to have one. Any personal attacks will be reported so tread carefully.