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Why do some black guys act like this? Why do they expect me to chase them?

Black guys I noticed aren't so masculine I noticed when talk to me they expect me to ask them out or they'll ask me to make the first move even when it's obvious I don't want them". I would totally understand if I was...
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Is there life after divorce? Why do I keep having miscarriages he made me feel so stupid but I don't think that I am?

So I married my 55 year old band teacher right after I turned 18. He was separated from his ex wife. My parents were rich alcoholics that fought a lot and I felt unsafe there. My brother said I could stay at his house but...
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How do I (F24) ask my friends with benefits (M32) to stop being too affectionate without possibly ending the arrangement?

I was dating this guy back in the summer when I was in my gap year and he broke things off because he wanted someone who would not move and asked if I would be fine changing my career plans to stay near him etc. However,...
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I think she's wanting me to make a move, but I don't know how?

Honestly think it can just be a confidence issue my end When we met a few months ago things hit off well but we didn't date because of stuff kept as friends but kept that option on the table. Not too long ago when playing...
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How do you like this Knight unit for my turn-based strategy game?

Just attacking over and over with the most expensive unit in the game is boring, so I added some spells to him to make him even more formidable. Knight The Holy Avengers of the ancient world, Knights usually come from a...
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Should I dump this person?

I (25f) been talking to this guy (25m) for about a month and a half. The first month we were long distance and he seemed fine. However, when the gap closed as in, I moved to another city that was closer to him (for other...
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Why do people do this?

So I have a friend who set me up with a friend of hers. She reached out first but instead of the texting or messaging me, she found me on FB dating and message me there. Needless to say, we hit it off immediately. All was...
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Are the 30s not the ages to be established anymore?

I am 30 and flat out broke. I don't own a home. The only true assets I possess is a sedan and an RV. I live in an apartment, and I will have to move back to my parents' home once my lease ends. I am newly engaged and...
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I am 30 and flat out broke. I don't own a home. The only true assets I possess is a sedan and an RV. I live in an apartment, and I will have to move back to my parents' home once my Show More
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Asked me to be his girlfriend and than blocked me?

Genuinely dont understand because he's not a player, infact has dated zero people. I was sure he liked me, he made all the first moves, turned bright red when he saw me and would tell me and his friends how much he liked...
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Who is the most sociopathic girl you have known?

6 years ago, I moved to LA for college, after moving from Illinois. The culture was different in some ways, but one of my distinct memories is of knowing this girl who was horrendous. Unlike Illinois, this place...
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Guys, Why does he sometimes act hot and cold and I feel like he's pushing me away?

We are both in a relationship, but something has drawn us together since the first time we met at work. Common topics and interests, so a colleague also became a personal trainer. We are together and write to each other...
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Can two anxious attachment styles work or will the constant overthinking and worrying ruin the relationship?

First off I would say I'm an anxious style, I've always been with girls that are avoidant attachment, to me avoidants are people who are unlovable as they run from relationships and act like they don't care, where as...
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What does it mean when a guy stalks your Instagram story without following you then two months later follows you?

I had a crush on this guy back in middle school he never knew about me we never talked or even became friends we went to high school together and he still didn’t know about me but he did stare at me once while I was...
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How should I go about this?

There's this guy at my school that I like but I don't know how to go about it. We follow each other on instagram and he likes most of my posts. He followed me first, unfollowed me, then followed me back. I have messaged...
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I can't move on from a guy I haven't even talked too, something about him makes me think about him, we go to same sport. PLEASE help me out?

hard to explain but this guy and me go to judo at the same club, i started not long ago and he competes more often so we both train differents locations. When i had my first tournament, somehow i saw him going across the...
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How do I overcome this failure?

First things first, I am a (F 27) and since I can remember I've done everything right. I went to school, tried my hardest in college and eventually got into radiology school which I worked extremely hard for. 4 years of...
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Religion and new towns?

I recently moved to a new town. With lots of churches. I was raised Catholic, my boys are Catholic. This new town is more on the Christian side. My Tia lives here and she’s Christian. I’ve been pushed to a Christian...
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How to heal from a breakup

Time is the answer. I didn't get it when it first happened. People would tell me it's just going to take time but I didn't realize that it's so true. I've been suffering for five months. Crying my ass off and wondering...
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Why are guys so confusing?

Ok so every time I ask out a guy because they don’t EVER make the first move on me, I get rejected. I’ve always been single. I don’t understand why, either because I’m a confident and likable girl. So guys, do y’all like...
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