Search Results: saying no to a guy

Why is the good friend of the guy I am interested in is telling me to shoot my shot with the guy I like?

I am friends with the guy I am asking for advice. But the guy I like and my friend are good friends, where they hang out a lot and help each other with life stuff. I asked the same friend on text if he genuinely thinks I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My friend likes a guy but he likes me and its awkward for me?

My coworker and I both work in an office, and recently a new guy joined our team. When he first arrived, all the women in the office were gagged—this man is FINE. We all openly admitted that we found him attractive, so it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this normal?

Been talking to a guy for 2 months now, known him for 3 years, everything is going good. My question to guys or female who have been in my position is, is it normal for (John doe) to have a female friend who reaches out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Man acted like he was dying & cheated?

So... Iv only been on 2 relationships in my life. Now I know I was cheated on in both... So fucked up. Anyway so Iv been talking to this one guy for 7 years. We met up once too. We both had financial issues that's one of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this a bad guy?

I met this guy from a dating app in may 2025. Throughout the first 1.5 months, we couldn't meet up due to my hectic school schedule, stress or my cough that just wouldn't go away. Finally after my cough went away, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date someone that wouldn’t give you the time of day when you were obese/overweight?

I had a crush in high school and I was obsessed with him for years. Years! I dreamed that he was my boyfriend and the love of my life. Unfortunately he was so mean to me and my special needs friends. My friends didn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will dudes date sanpaku eyes woman like me? Maybe is that why guys NEVER have taken me serious and only lie to get laid and disappear?

Does it mean something to have sanpaku / sleepy / Billie Eilish type of eyes (not color)? Mine seem to get more sleepy looking like Billie Eilish as time goes on. It used to be very pronounced under conditions like lack...

Mskeje

Xper 1 Age: 44

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What's the scummiest thing someone you personally know in real life did?

For me, it's this guy I knew from when I was 10 and he was 8, but despite being two years younger than me he was an absolute piece of shit. He was controlling, abusive, rude, and his mom did absolutely nothing to stop...

EzraIsShy76028

Xper 7 Age: 24

Girls, If Women Say They Want a Nice Guy, Why Do So Many Ignore the Quiet Ones?

I’m not writing this to complain or ask for pity. I’m just laying out the reality, because most people have no idea what dating looks like from the perspective of a shy guy. And frankly, it’s nothing like the romantic...

Shy_Steve

Guru Age: 42

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Girl's Behavior

A chick travels all the way from the UK to stare at me with wide eyes. Why would she do this?

A woman I was acquainted with. I left on bad terms/for the greater good. She’s been sending people to harass me and whatnot. They’ll do shit like stare at me with super wide eyes. Basically stupid shit to bait me into...

JakeThaGreat00-

Xper 1 Age: 28

How can I get through to my little brother?

My brother is a very kind man but his long distance girlfriend is completely toxic. He works at a factory for 5 days a week 50 hours a week while going to school for nursing. The poor guys up 19 hours a day 5 days a week....

Shadowmoonfairy

Xper 1 Age: 30

Would you ever date someone who couldn't speak the same language as you?

I met this guy last year whilst working together. He knows no English and we used to communicate through just joking around and one or two words. We got on really well even though we couldn't understand the words that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I was starting to like this guy, but he's scaring me, Why won't he listen?

Y'all I'm really just on here to vent, so please be nice to me. I started talking to this guy, and at first everything seemed fine, but then I noticed a change in his behavior, a scary change. Being that we just started...

HeyimRae90

Xper 1 Age: 35

Is he playing game or just not serious? he asked me out then went cold should I still go?

I met this guy while signing a contract. He was there with a talkative friend, but he didn’t say a word. I was sitting there singing quietly. Later, when I got home, he followed me on Instagram and DMed me. He told me...

nsharaf

Xper 5 Age: 23

Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

So my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year 6 months officially but known each other for 3 because of work, he's met my mom's side of the family and my friends and he's suppose to meet my dad this weekend. Things are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, older brother figures?

So I have two questions, really: do women (adults, not literal girls), actually want older brother type figures in their lives? And would you be disappointed if you later found out that they were into you? I’m taking...

madewithingredients

Xper 4 Age: 36