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Plus doesn’t that slide look like a fantastic place to read?

The material is easy to clean but I won’t jump on it without clean socks anyhow. I can put a foam mattress topper then sheets and blanket to sleep and easily roll them off the bed to jump.

I really think this can be a solution. I’d have enough space for a foyer area with books and seating.

This can go in the bedroom area I’ll have space for a large rug to create boarder. Then dividers.

Obviously, I’ll get to a point in future where I went more conventional setting but my life is kind of in flux at and I don’t think I’ll live in my next location so long so I think ax an interim it’s pretty cool. I mean jump while you can jump 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😊

This is probably much more sound proof than a rebounder with legs will be anyway so better for an apartment. It’s also not any more 💰 than the bed id have gotten.

Plus I can make a canopy bed super easy by just hanging very long sheet sheets.

The weight limit is 450 so I’m pretty safe. Even have a sleep over with a few friends safely tho, I wouldn’t let more than one adult jump at once.

Haven’t decided yet but I’m leaning heavily..,

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go.

I regularly have physical therapy for chronic dizziness. Therapists change every few months. This last one I clicked with immediately. He gives me exercises and answers questions. There is no physical contact.

After my sessions ended, seeing as we get on pretty well & with him being new in the area I invited him out platonically— just me showing him around.

I made it clear I am not interested in dating. He said he travels so he’s not about dating atm, we understand each other. No problems.

Fourth time we met up mind you this was over three months period of time- we weren’t meeting up constantly. It was very late we were listening to street music playing their last song, he moves in (slowly enough for me to stop him - I give him props for that) I stopped him. I asked him ‘you said you wanted to be friends. We both agreed?’ He said he did. He does. He was just feeling very friendly. 👀 👀

I knew he was joking so I laughed but then my mind went back to the issue which was:

1. I do not want to get involved.

2 I thought he didn’t want to get involved.

3 he basically lied to me.

And here’s the thing. He answered me honestly but I now doubt I can trust him.

he said he kind of assumed I was just saying I didn’t want more than friends bc everyone says that (((do they?)) and we get on well so he thought he’d just wait and see.

it doesn’t bother me he turned out to be a bit interested or that he tried to kiss me or even him lying bc he didn’t have an obligation to tell he if he was interested in anything - as long as he accepted I wasn’t.

It is the fact he assumed I was lying and I’m quite tired of people thinking I am playing a game when I’m direct. Even nice people.

He didn’t trust me & I don't know if I can trust him. BUT he did come clean. He could have played it off as a misunderstanding.

What would you do?