Search Results: bringing up the past

How do you handle gaslighting?

The topic of the argument is not the problem, it is the gaslighting. The topic in itself is pointless and dumb. Im Czech so there is a difference in language. This is how our convo went with my (23f) boyfriend (24m). I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Replying to messages snaps etc?

Guys.. recently I caught up with an old flame… over the past few weeks he has sent quite a few snap chats which I have ignored etc. ( I have not seen him since in few weeks) during our recent catch up he brought up why am...

Bunnynurse03

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why do women lose interest in me so fast?

First off, I'm a Tall guy, physically fit with tattoos who has gone through some dating trouble recently. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely say I'm a very confident and social guy as well. Most...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex’s and memories?

Why would an ex that is now a friend bring up past memories of our sexual relations of what he liked that I did for him certain ways during a peaceful conversation, when he has had a girlfriend for the past 6 months...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I overreacting, He chose sleeping in over me?

My boyfriend and I usually have 1 night a week sleeping at each other's place. We haven't had a night next to each other in 2 weeks. We have both been really busy so I understood. But we finally got time for each other...

Cali86

Xper 4 Age: 40

How can I make his walls come down any advice and why some guys think this was?

To start off he’s been hurt by an ex back in high school she never gave him closure after their breakup, she doesn’t trust him. Fast forward to recent like these past months and years he thought he had to play it safe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it justified for me to be upset that my boyfriend asked me for a paternity test if we ever have our first child?

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and I'm certain I want to marry and have kids with him. We talk about all that a lot, and during one of those conversations, he brought up the manipulation a lot of men go through...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ex brings up past sexual relationS?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why you guys act like this?

I've been getting to know this Korean guy online for a while now. He's 25 and works in a military capacity as an officer. We've been chatting since the end of January and even had a few phone calls. It's been going pretty...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is our friend trying to get another ex friend back into the group?

There’s a group of us with Asperger’s. our mutual friend *Edwin* has continuously mentioned ex friend and ex crush *Bradley* to me in conversation. Now he’s stopped, at my request and has recently started mentioning other...

HappyWoman34

Influencer Age: 37

Family & Friends

Am I overreacting?

my sister-in law invited me and my husband to a bbq last weekend but ended up rescheduling it for this weekend which is the week of our daughter's bday. My sister in law explained that she was going to also invite my...

Caponetwo

Xper 2 Age: 33

Is it wrong to have expectations for my boyfriend to treat me occasionally?

I have been going out with this guy for about a year now. In the beginning he took me out on really cute dates and paid the large bills while I paid the small things (popcorn, a drink, etc.). This habit slowly faded when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I dont want to be used but dont want to lose him completely... any idea what to do?

I've known my best friend for 5 years. His family is more like family then my own. Been friends through several relationships. I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. They have always ended horribly, and 2 of which...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

If you saw a topless girl lying in a driveway would you help or pass?

SAN FRANCISCO — The death of a 15-year-old girl found in a San Francisco driveway has sparked outrage among family members who claim that passersby ignored her body. Jazmin Pellegrini was discovered deceased on Saturday...

Daniela1982

Master Age: 38

Family & Friends

Is it wrong to encourage people to lose weight?

I work with an autistic man at a commercial cleaning company. It's just him, and I working together all day. He lost a LOT of weight over the past couple years. I mentioned that I need to lose some weight. I'm 5'9", and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you drop a friend if they follow an abusive ex and his family on Instagram?

I've known this girl for over 30 years. We go through periods where we don't talk for years. During one of those years, she was following my ex and his family who were so abusive to me on Instagram. Naturally, I am pissed...

Ellew4

Xper 1 Age: 20

Relationship help?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, he's met and hung out with my son, I've met his family and we've been half way living with each other for the past couple months but he hasn't initially asked me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does the reason we got together matter?

I recently got into a relationship with this new guy and I can’t help but have the feeling that I am just filling his desire for a relationship rather than being the person he chose to have a relationship with. About a...

Anonymous

(25-29)