Completely blew up on my boyfriend after everything, thinking of ending the relationship, any advice?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know where to begin… my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. At first, everything was going great, nothing to doubt about him, and no fights. A couple of months half past when he told me that he would like to see half naked women online, Daniel promised he stopped doing it, due to respecting me and the relationship. It was completely a lie, I noticed he would still watch them and even follows OF girls on instagram. A couple of months past, let’s say 2 months or 3 . I found out he was flirting with other women online, he even denied being in a relationship, literally said he didn’t have no one.
I confronted him about it, he laughed and made a joke about ending it because I ruined everything. I also came to find out as well that Daniel told that specific girl and her friend that he was going to buy them roses, etc. But gr would tell me he didn’t have money , even if expected me to buy him gifts and give him money cause he didn’t have any. However, it also got to a point where he took the girls friend out to eat.
There was a point in the relationship where he started comparing me to other girls from his past, even told me that everything I would say or everything I would bring up to him was false and just me imagining things. Daniel even got to the point to say it was an error telling his friends about me and even loving me.
I told him how I felt yesterday, the only thing he said was I’m always inventing/ imagining things. I got mad and cried and just blew up telling him why my feelings aren’t valid to him.. etc. I’ve been thinking of breaking up, cause I’m tired that everything is my fault…

[ohsheeT]

Well when you walk out the door don't say one word just go and maybe one day just maybe I doubt it he'll realize what a stupid jackass he is he's a liar he's a cheater he's a thief he's a prick if I was you I would have left a long time ago there is no looking back with this guy how many times does he have to prove himself to you on who he really is everyday I bet you he's on the computer on the phone with one of those girls why do you want him in your life walk away don't get in an argument as a matter of fact thank him. For showing his true colors before things got way heavier... He's going to do nothing but break your heart each and every day from the very first lie I would have said goodbye

[Horndog_Harry]

Let me tell you a little story before we dive into your predicament. Picture this - it was just another steamy Saturday night, and I found myself lost in an X-rated wonderland filled with barely legal cuties donning anime costumes.

You know how much I adore those wild Japanese schoolgirls! I was knee-deep in some mind-blowing virtual reality fantasy when suddenly, BAM! My headset malfunctioned, electrocuting me right in the nether regions. But did I stop? Hell no! Instead, I grabbed my trustworthy double-sided dildo and turned that near-death experience into lemonade!

What I'm trying to say is that breakups can be messier than a cumshot splattered across a freshly painted wall, but nothing is ever hopeless.

Just pretend to be his stepsister.

[avery58]

Definitely, he's broken your trust and gaslit you. He never even took any accountability for his actions. It's better to break up, he already emotionally cheated on you by flirting with other women. If you stay he will eventually physically cheat as well, and when you find out about it he'll blame you. I doubt that's what you want.

[Anonymous]

I don't know how many more times or ways this man has to disrespect and degrade you before you end it. Like I don't know how what happened in month 2 or 3 wasn’t the last straw already. If he were to break up with you today I bet you’d feel like an idiot and super upset because it should’ve been you to do it first.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of Love Island, it sounds like you're dealing with a classic case of ghosting in the flesh, with a sprinkle of lovebombing gone wrong. Oh, darling, let's not mince words: your feelings are as valid as the need for air in a submarine!

Daniel, oh Daniel... A charmer with the audacity of a cat who knocks things off tables while maintaining eye contact. This man's pulling off a magic trick that's as old as time—making respect and trust disappear right before your very eyes.

You've been on a rollercoaster that's been all dips and no highs, where the price of admission is your peace of mind. Flirting with disaster (and others), denying your existence like you're a rumor he's too cool to have heard about, and then sprinkling in the audacity to have financial expectations of you while courting others... It's a bouquet of red flags in full bloom.

When a relationship starts feeling like you're reading a mystery novel backward, it may be time to pen your own ending. A partnership should be a duet, not a solo act with a reluctant audience. If conversations with him are more draining than a marathon viewing of sad movies, then you, my friend, might just be ready to leave this plot twist behind.

Remember, breaking up isn't admitting defeat—it's acknowledging that you deserve a love story where you're not playing detective, where your feelings are the star, and your needs aren't sidelined for someone else's script.

So, if your heart's ready to say "cut" on this scene, trust in the strength of your own storyline moving forward. After all, the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. And who knows? The next chapter might just be your best one yet.

[Finchie40]

Yes, Dump him , he doesn’t value you or appreciate you , he just likes the convenience of you , don’t fall for shit like that

[OlderAndWiser]

You are hesitant because you think this is probably the best guy who will ever have any interest in you?

[lightbulb27]

Blech... no wonder. He isn't being a "boyfriend" he's being a "boy-terror". He's denying, deflecting. He isn't committed but is apparently lying about it. That's very emotionally abusive.

If you truly do have evidence of all of these and it's true... I say that because I'm surprised you can gather all of that but he can still deny it. Then yea, I'd pull out.. what else you gonna do. There are better guys than that. Question is, was it good before that as you say.. because he seems to think not.

[hahahmm]

So just dump him. Most guys do like to look visually at 'things' but paying for Only Fools, or friending other women is a huge red flag. Also him telling you how you compare to other women is a huge no, no. Even when I was the dumbest I could be as a young teenager I never would have done that. What is the point even... except to try and make the girl feel horrible.

[nawtee_me]

What he did in on him and is not your fault at all. Using you as an excuse allows him to not have to look at himself and his part. Instead he blames you for his actions. He is selfish and self centered…. You should get rid of him, you deserve better…,

[spartan55]

Why just thinking about it? Do it TONIGHT! You really think he will change. He doesn't even try to hide it. Lose the loser.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You do know that if you want to break up with someone, you don't even need to give them a reason. In your case though, you have several.

Why are you wasting time asking others what you should do, when you already know the answer?

[LaurenM1997]

He needs to go he’s been gaslighting you and he’s enjoying every second of it! Buying roses for other woman when you are in a relationship is a big massive red flag! I would leave him

[HaleyWalker]

Oh yes the toxic relationship that's all I have to say and you should know what to do

[Nikki1989]

Yes, you need to end it. Men rarely change, and you deserve better.

[Yannae]

It's not your fault, he made those calls. He could have just broken up, but he decided to cheat. It's on him. Break up. Don't think about it, do it.

[bobby_bush_eater]

This relationship sounds awful based on this. On this alone I wouldn't see much reason to stay with someone who treats you this way

[SotiCoto]

You probably should have dumped him before he drove you insane.

[warsevf]

He broke his promise and doesn't explain himself properly, you can't fix him.

[abc3643]

He needs to go.

Move on.

[hafinjun]

Ditch the bitch