My boyfriend blew me off, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I made plans two days ago with my boyfriend to go out today, he ends up making plans this morning with his buddy instead and doesn't tell me until right before he leaves. I know he didn't forget because I reminded him this morning. I'm extremely livid right now, and not sure what to say to him or what to do. We just started dating 2 weeks ago...

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Thanks everyone for your input, you're right, it does reveal his true colors... This is extremely upsetting, but since it's so early in the relationship, I think it will be a lot easier to move on.

[LibraPisces66]

I would simply say Goodbye for good. I mean, that was a totally disrespectful thing to do to you. Especially so early in a relationship, when you'd think he would be on his best behavior. This shows a severe lack of character, consideration, and appreciation for you, your time, and your own plans for your time off. I would be livid too, and done with this jerk. No second chances, or further contact.

[Asker]

Thank you... Everything you said really hit me, you're right about everything. Even though it's upsetting, I need to move on from him.

[LibraPisces66]

Yes, I know it's hard to take some souls who treat us or others so poorly, but you are wise and strong to move on, and realize he is simply not for you. Kudos. :D

[LibraPisces66]

You are very welcome, and thank you for the MHO :)

[Calex]

I used to care a lot about this, but people did this so much to me that I stopped caring. Every time someone makes plans with me, I just think to myself "It won't happen" and it just doesn't happen.

Bottom Line: Don't believe in planning.

[Asker]

You're right. I shouldn't get my hopes up anymore. It only ends up hurting you.

[Remonster]

Egocentric dick. He told you off, now tell him off forever.

[Asker]

Thank you... you're right.

[JohnBhoy94]

Simple, you're not a priority to him.

Move on.

[Anonymous]

just forgive him.

[Asker]

I can't just forgive him for blowing me off. That makes no sense. If I forgave him every time he blew me off, I'd be letting him walk all over me.