Search Results: can guys be just friends

My guy friend won’t stop texting me and I need to rest? Why can’t people let me rest if I’m sick?

He keeps asking what kind of chocolate or flowers do I like. I didn’t answer until 2 hours later which is now because I’m cranky and exhausted. i told him dark chocolate and sunflowers and why? He said, “Just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I deal with an information overload like this?

I am going anonymous for obvious reasons. I have discovered that the close guy friend I’m interested in is my therapist’s son. He told me that he returns my interest but can’t date me because of it and feels comfortable...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why some girls loved and some not?

Today I saw girl that my guy friend likes. He always described her with so highly and I started thinking she’s beautiful. But today, I saw her and it felt like she had ordinary looks. She has super narrow hips and wide...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I let him go. Help?

Ok so I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a month and he’s great when we do go out but he only takes me on dates and hangs out w me on weekends. During the week he texts me everyday but sometimes it’s only like...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can he take the child away from her?

So I’m asking for a friend. Long story short; my friend had a kid with her coworker. He moved in her place, he got cancer and hasn’t worked in over a year. She’s been paying all the bills, rent, taking care of him and the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why does her demeanor change with me?

So I (38m) have this friend, she’s an Aries (36f). I know they tend to be a bit more out there. We have been good friends for about a good year now and I have noticed a change in how she acts. I don’t know how to read it....

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you stop talking to someone do you also stop talking to all their friends?

I'm on the fence with this one bc there are guys/gals I'll stop talking to which means I also have the blessing of not talking to the annoying people who insist on being in their lives (gold diggers and other shady sorts...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Is it true or false that a kiss can change your mind about someone?

One of my best guy friends tried to kiss me a few days ago, who's been apparently hoping that if he kisses me, he might feel something other than the icks at the thought of kissing someone he loves as a sister. He was...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

What do you think of this situation after the first date?

I went on a 7 hour first date with a girl on Monday. The date was really good, we talked basically for the whole time and we both felt comfortable with each other the whole way through especially for a first date and also...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why don’t black guys like much black women anymore?

Now as a black young woman I prefer my own race or men or color. I don’t know I’m that’s what I prefer. I never dated a black man so I want to date my race. I always get some white guys liking me (not often). There’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I set a boundary?

So there was this guy that liked me and he would make comments saying how if I saw him in a different state me and my mom could crash at his place he was telling me like sex jokes or talking about certain things. Got his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do y’all think I’m the problem?

Guys it was me and my boyfriend’s 1-year anniversary and we were on the phone. His friends were with him and they could hear everything He straight up tried to clown me and laughed to his friends (I didn’t say anything by...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do about my parents?

Okay, my parents are really great parents. They never physically abuse me and never knowingly mentally abuse me, they stopped a lot of generational trauma to themselves and don't let their toxic childhood affect their...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Relationships

Do you know why you're drawn to your type? Have your type/taste ever changed, if so why?

As I'm way in deep with therapy, psycological, myself, I'll figure I ask you all, as it would be interesting to know. As for me I have been drawn to guys who've been through some bad stuff which in one way has matured...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

If you even have to question it it’s a no if someone is interested or not 9/10 ?

If it’s unclear or you even have to ask yourself if a person is interested in you the answer is no. At first she started the conversation with me now a days it’s like she wants me to talk to her. But i never asked her to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he feel the need to text me every day?

There's this guy I met in the hospital, became friends with him. Long story short, since I gave him my number he's CONSTANTLY texting me. Like, every morning, every night... and always asking how im doing, like several...

Shygirl977

Xper 7 Age: 37

Insulted by a friend?

So, I told my friend a story when I was young about an ex introducing me to someone important and he asked my friend why I am with him. My friend asked me if I wasn’t blond enough. I was purely insulted because this guy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was he interested or not interested since he didn’t ask for my number?

I went to the coffeeshop this evening. I was supposed to meet my friend, but she last min wasn’t able to make it anymore. I accidentally sat next to a cute guy and we talked throughout the whole time. He’s a full time...

bobalife

Guru Age: 35