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For the past couple of months I've been having some friendly contact with a guy. Although he sometimes seems to be keeping his distance, he is contrarily the one to keep the conversation going and shows interest in my life. Even after the parking lot has gone empty, we often still remain a little while longer to talk.

Last night, we were hanging out at the gym and while I was talking to him, he suddenly grabbed onto the punching bag hanging beside us, and started dry-humping it. It caught me off guard, and he could clearly see the surprise on my face. We laughed about it then he jokingly mentioned he could see the surprise in my eyes.

Right afterwards, while we were still in our conversation, he started taking off his shirt, then changed into different clothes. Although I have seen more men changing while in conversation, it was very odd to me he'd do this right after he had his little... moment with the punching bag.

When we left, he mentioned he thought of me as an odd person. Then joked about being odd himself. Asked for my age and was surprised to learn I was younger than he'd imagined.

Thing is, what surprised me most by these acts and interactions is that this man is in a relationship and I do not have the sense that he is in any way interested or attracted to me. Would it be an extreme level of comfort or should I be a little more concerned? Lol.

boyfriend just recently got a jacket off Facebook marketplace. He has similar nice ones, some of which I’ve gotten him. I lounge around a lot in his clothes and put on his jackets when I’m cold, to go outside to take the dog out, etc. He offered me one of his nicest newer jackets to take the dog out in just last week. Nothing in his closet has ever been off limits for me to wear.

I took the dog out earlier and put on his newest jacket (i didn’t see the black one I usually wear hanging up) and took it off as soon as I came back in. He’s furious at me now that I wore it, says I disrespected it and him, said I don’t care about him and to fuck off. He wanted me to leave, but it was 12:30am and I can’t see well at night and was in no state to drive honestly at that point. We had already been laying down for bed for close to 30 minutes and he wanted me to go sleep on the couch and even elbowed me hard in the back at one point. I’m shaken up because I didn’t expect him to be so upset about it when he’s always been open about me wearing everything else. I even walked past him in the kitchen and talked to him before I went out and he didn’t mention it. If I had known it wasn’t okay to wear, I definitely wouldn’t have, but how was I supposed to? I tried to explain but he wasn’t listening to any of it and talked over me and told me to shut the fuck up. Even said “you don’t care about me, so why should I care about you?”

I don’t know what to think. Was I wrong? Thanks in advance