I'm genuinely confused. What happened with her?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a girl for a month and a half. We met on Hinge and also work for the same company. We had a great connection. We text almost everday. She seemed very into me. She talked about future dates and was very flirty on text. We had seven dates. After the 3rd date, she seemed to get shyer. 5th date I felt like I was getting mixed signals, but we were physically close. We still had fun. 6th date she was off. I always told her she looked great when I saw her. We went on a hike and she told me the night before she was so excited to wear comfy clothes for our hike. When I saw her I said, "You look comfy!" She seemed offended by it. I said, "You still look great." And gave her a hug. We hiked for a few hours. She seemed sad or bothered. The week before her grandma was diagnosed with cancer so I figured she had that on her mind. She offered to drive me home since I had to Uber due to construction in front of my driveway. I didn't want to invite invite her in since my house was a little messy. I leaned for a kiss. She gave me a peck and hurried me out as she was afraid someone would drive up behind her. I thought, "Oh boy, did I screw up. She's mad that I didn't invite her in." I sent her a text and apologized. She told me not to be sorry and that she was glad to come home and shower. I invited her over Tuesday for dinner and pumpkin carving. She accepted. She showed up and was CLEARLY nervous. I gave her a of the house and stayed in the hall when I showed her my room (I wasn't trying). When I made dinner she stood by the counter awkwardly and she could tell something was bothering her. I tried to carry the conversation, but she didn't seem too interested and shy. At one point I walked behind her to get into the cabinet. I looked behind me and saw her shrug her shoulders with a weird look on her face. At one point she helped me carry something and I kissed her. She seemed to lighten up. She barely at anything. We carved our pumpkins. Continued..

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Second part.. https://www. girlsaskguys. com/qt/break-up-divorce/q5130884-i-m-genuinely-confused-what-happened-with-her-pt2

[AviatorTom]

I once dated a woman. After our third date, where we had fun on all of them, sje broke things off, telling me "If I don't feel chemistry with a guy by the third date, it's not going anywhere."

You had seven dates and never made a move on her. She probably expected you to, and wanted you to do that. Standing outside when you showed her your room is a sign that you're treating her like a sister, not a woman you want to have a relationship with.

I haven't seen part 2, and I may not. If you want a real relationship with this woman, show some passion with her. Do more than kiss her, more than a peck. How far you go is up to the two of you.

[DB1973]

Hmm The last part seems like she just wanted you to give her lots of physical attention. The mid paragraph part, No one knows and you didn't dig deeper to give yourself more info to deal with. Never assume when a woman clams up that you know what she is thinking.

[Nikki1989]

You can't forge a relationship via texting. It is a total waste of time. Fix your communication issues and you might get somewhere.

[ÖyleBirGeçer]

don't be sad, it will pass