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I am currently facing a situation where I don't know what to do. My family has been toxic throughout my life and has not allowed me any privacy growing up, which already takes its toll. I had to sneak around and date once I reached college because of how crazy my family was about it, to the point my serious 4-year relationship ended over it. Now, I have gotten serious with a guy (engaged), and my family disapproves of him because of his financial status (he doesn't make enough) and thinks he's abusive/disrespectful towards them and me. For example, my mom claims he's disrespectful because he hung up the phone on her while she was speaking. But she purposely interrupted my phone call with him, knowing that got him mad since we were trying to spend time together.

I lived with him (7 hours away from family) for a couple of months before my family got involved. My sister came saying that my mom wasn't doing well health-wise, and I had to leave to visit/take care of her. My partner didn't want me to go, but I didn't want to leave my family hanging, so I left. I came to find out that they planned to keep me here from June (when my sister came) to September/October for a "ceremony" where they could do their rites of passage before marriage. Still, I'm not confident they will actually do that with the way they all have been behaving about it as it's getting closer to time.

However, my partner has his quirks and isn't perfect. He does have trust issues because his last girlfriend cheated on him, so he fought over looking through my phone a couple of times in the past, but that's gotten resolved like other issues we had before. He marches to the beat of his drum, so he'll tell people if he doesn't think something is right according to his morals.

I don't want to compromise my relationship with my family, but I'm afraid that'll happen regardless. I understand my family's concerns about him, but he's not the bad person they portray him as. Help.

I had terrible acne during my teenage years and even though I longer have acne, but I still have post acne scars where my pores on the skin are pretty huge and obvious. From time to time my partner would comment on my skin by saying "you picked on your acne during your teenage years which caused bad scars now" it makes me feel awful like I'm not attractive enough for him and I don't even point out on his flaws but he would always judge my appearance

Im not sure what other men think of such acne scars on women. Despite having proper hygiene and eating clean, taking care of my skin these scars are difficult to get rid off. Also, the laser treatment by dermatologist is expensive.

Does it even matter to you if the girl who you are in a relationship with or dating doesn't have clear skin? Is it a deal breaker?