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We’ve been talking a lot but it’s long distance. I do like her and we’re close and things seem good but she has strange moments. For instance I was posting things about my ex wanting me back and how I’m single and she said this the day after I posted them ”there is not a day that goes by where I don’t miss you. Even if it is one day do you know how hard it is for me. I think you’re mad at me. Are you? I hope I didn’t upset you” then she said “please say something to me I hope I didn’t upset you”

no other woman I know cares about the updates regarding my ex. no other woman says anything like this
None of them. I honestly don’t understand her behaviour. What does she want?

she’s gotten jealous of other women talking to me and she also said to me “yeah you were messaging (name of woman that follows me on Instagram) yeah you were”

I just don’t understand any of this. I do like her so yeah but I’m kinda getting concerned about her behaviour. She does this only to me

I don’t want to ask her because it may get awkward. Thank you please help. If you can’t find an appropriate voting option please write your thoughts in the comments

Hi!

Got "rejected" from my crush after the second date.
She did the classic: I don't know what I want, need to find myself.
But she still wants to remain and hangout as friends.
More or less "Be a nice guy and sit on the back-burner".

She broke up (9yrs rel) with her Ex half a year ago, I guess this also has some toll in her decision.
Oh, just a side-note, it appears they've not moved on from each other coz they're still friends on social-media and liking/hearting each others posts aaand hanging out...

So I did the exit with "I'm not interested in friendship, but if you change your mind and I'm still available, don't hesitate to reconnect".

Now to the topic and question.
Should we remain friends on social media (FB)?
I mean, so I do not completely vanish from the earth.
Maybe someday when she actually are ready and I pop-up as online.. "oh that guy? I do remember him.." (yes, I still have hope in the moment, she did testing the waters for some reason...)

OR

Is this a bad idea, coz then my availability to her won't vanish from earth "enough". Therefor she will have better chance to forget about me, and then maaayybe from a universal coincident gets reminded of me and wants to rekindle?

We live in different cities (1h apart), so chances we bump in each other on daily basis are slim to none, and we haven't DM since two weeks ago, when she did the speech.