How can someonw get over the fact that you won't ever see your ex again? Especially if you still have feelings for them?

[Anonymous]

I find it very difficult to accept or not be sad about the fact that i will never see my ex or talk to him again since I am married now and he is in another country. He hurt me and broke up with me twice, caused a lot of trust issues to me; then tried to come back 2 years and half later, to which I refused. I still don't find him suitable because I can't trust him, but I still love him and I feel sad that we will never meet again knowing he is somewhere alive in the world. How do you get over this loss?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I think as humans, we find it hard to let go of something when we weren't given a choice. For example, If you break up with him, you would have already been preparing to let go which makes it easy. Since he broke up- you weren't given the chance to prepare. He was a person that you were in love with so even when you know things aren't good, doesn't make the love less strong. His love made an impact on you and that's why you can't let him go. However, you are married... If you continue to focus on your ex- you will eventually lose sight of what's right in front of you.

[Asker]

I am not focused on my ex and i love my husband, I just don't know how to make peace/accept that i will never in life see or talk to the other person i used to love a lot. You know what i mean?

[Goodvibes2]

You are fooling yourself if you can't get over it but you still want to. Your trust issues are your problem

[Anonymous]

I bet your husband is thrilled about that

[Opinion Owner]

Get over your ex and focus on the man you're lucky to have ffs