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Search Results: getting played
I dont want to be used but dont want to lose him completely... any idea what to do?
I've known my best friend for 5 years. His family is more like family then my own. Been friends through several relationships. I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. They have always ended horribly, and 2 of which...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to stop sabotaging relationships of any kind?
Whenever I sense someone is getting too close to me, I shut down and distance myself because I don't want to give them a false hope we can be something more. It doesn't apply only to romantic relationships but to...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I get back on my feet quickly with two small kids?
I am in a really toxic relationship and don’t want my children witnessing this any longer. I've finally realized that it’s never going to work and know that i need to get out of this situation very soon. However, I have a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Ever had a straight guy friendzone you (when you were initially confident he would be interested)?
I am hearing about this happening to women more often now. I also noticed that feminists have conveniently gotten quieter on their “oh the friendzone doesn’t exist” and “if you are in the friendzone you put yourself...
Anonymous
(36-45) Got easily overpowered by my 13 year old little brother.. should an elder sister be happy or sad?
I challenged him to a play fight and he easily pinned me down everytime and teased the hell out of me lol 😭 I'm confused whether I should be happy that he's getting matured or sad that I got embarrassed 😂
Anonymous
(25-29) Games to play with your partner for fun and connection
Playing games with your partner is a fantastic way to spend quality time together, break the routine, and strengthen your relationship. Whether you're looking for a cozy indoor activity or something more adventurous...
Kulotz
Xper 6 Age: 27 My boyfriend and I barely speak anymore what can I do to change that?
Hey guys, my boyfriend and I barely speak anymore, we do but briefly through out the day. We don’t hangout everyday. So I know we don’t talk anymore because all I ever do when we do speak is complain and nag about him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you guys think my dating boundaries are too strict?
I went on a breakfast date with a guy I was slowly getting to know. It took him a week or two to ask for my number and ask me out. The date was fine. He was a gentleman. I like him but I just felt he may have been moving...
Anonymous
(25-29) Dome or open stadium? Grass or artificial turf field for football 🏈?
Does the stadium play a part in the atmosphere and enjoyment of a football game? Personally for me I never liked domes or artificial turf so outside and on grass, add some pizza and wings and it's a great time! It just...
RetroReviews
Xper 6 Age: 50 My boyfriend of three years had a fling with a woman in the early stages of our relationship. Am I wrong to feel upset that they keep in touch?
This only came to light a year into our relationship and he says she came on to him. He said after one night he put a stop to it and then carried on as friends. I now find out after we’ve been going out for 3 years she...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) If guys ALWAYS chase the woman they really like, does it mean no one has ever really liked me?
So everywhere I look, everyone says that if a guy really wants you, if he really likes you, he will find a way to let you know. But I have never had a guy chase me. Ever. I’ve only had 2 relationships in my life and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does this make me a lazy/bad mom?
I have a 16 month old son. I work overnights because it works for my mom who keeps him while I work at night. He goes to daycare during the day. I have weekends off which at first I thought would be great thing. I figured...
graacceey
Xper 5 Age: 28 Why isn't new tech thoroughly tested and proven to work 100% of the time before they sell it to us or AM I REALLY The Magnet Of Bad Luck?
For DECADES I've been dealing with brand new tech that DOESN'T work, or at least it stops working the way it's supposed to after a few months to a few years!! Just now, I tried, twice, to DL a concert video from YT...
FunkyMonkee
Master Age: 58 Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
I (Don't) Write the Songs
. “I write the songs that make the whole world sing” — Barry Manilow . I was going to respond to a question I saw My personal record is 28. Do you think writing music of 28 songs in one day is incredible for an...
u You ever been on a date with someone that got tipsy or drunk and then they started flirting with other people in front of you?
They changed to this whole new person right before your eyes , basically going from kind and sweet and caring to this attention seeker the second they get tipsy from drinking. This one girl I took on a date ended up...
Advice on becoming more confident with dating?
Bad experiences have rattled me and I don’t feel confident around guys. The last guy, I thought we were getting along well and the way he acted I thought he liked me, or maybe he was just overly friendly, but it was...
Anonymous
(36-45) This is the first time he did this?
My guy friend and I were play fighting, pretending as if we were in a boxing match. Suddenly, he grabs my arms in such a way that I'm not able to hit him, he picks me up over his shoulders and walks away with me. It's...
DabieberRoyalty
Xper 6 Age: 30 Does this mean he wants kids aswell?
I (F27) have been nearly 5 years in a relationship with my boyfriend (M32). When we started dating, I was super young and not thinking about kids and the future much at all. He was in a terible finacial situation at the...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 We are always budding heads, what do we need to do to save our relationship?
My boyfriend and are have been together for a year and half. We have the best times together when we arnt fighting or arguing. Most our disagreements start with a debate on a topic and because we are both passionate about...
Anonymous
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