You ever been on a date with someone that got tipsy or drunk and then they started flirting with other people in front of you?

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They changed to this whole new person right before your eyes , basically going from kind and sweet and caring to this attention seeker the second they get tipsy from drinking. This one girl I took on a date ended up flirting with another guy after she started getting tipsy , I just played my cool and let her do her thing , she brought the guy over to me to introduce me and he shook my hand , I said she is all yours bro have fun with her and I got up and walked out , she then chased me out the door and said don’t leave I want you not him , I said if you wanted me , you wouldn’t be flirting with him , so I said go have fun with him , it’s cool , I said you already showed. Your true colors of how you act when you drink and I’m sorry I don’t want to be with a girl like that but it was nice knowing you and she kept trying to pull me in to stay with her , the other guy ended up giving up on her because he saw how she was all over me. So I said fuck it the night is young and I still want to party , so I went back into the bar with her and ordered another beer. She thanked me for not leaving her and apologized for her actions , she then said let’s go back to your place , I said ok sounds good , I ended up fucking her and then never called her again after that , I know I probably shouldn’t of banged her, but I did because she was all over me and said fuck it. Would you call them again or end it like I did?

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

No , but I have been there when they got drunk , and that annoys me , especially if they just can't drink , thinking of one in particular in Australia , vastly younger than me , all over me in this cocktail bar , that was okey.. but then she started heading for the Casino , so intoxicated , and she is slapping in green babies ( $100 Aud ) into a poker machine , I didn't want to fck her that badly , and I was far from home.. So Davieeeee " Exit stage left " , didn't say a word , jumped on the train , turned off the phone..

When I made it home , its about 1.30 hours , there were 54 messages , I just " delete all " and thought , we will learn from that one.

MaybeTony · Accepted Answer

I've never had a girl disrespect me like that. I would just call one of her friends to pick her up and leave. Why would you play it cool and shake that dude's hand? I'm not saying fight him, but don't shake his hand. I mean good on you for establishing boundaries though. Most modern men would just sit there and be cucked tbh. I wouldn't have fucked her though. Not after that. When I was single I only fucked women who would really go out of their way. This girl would have obsessed with you if you didn't smash by the way.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I just posted a question about being with people that are chemicalized with alcohol and/or drugs and why those relationships usually end because they like to start shit most of the time.
See, look how she changed her whole personality right in front of you.
If she had been straight she wouldn't have caused any chaos' like that. You might have really hit it off, but her drinking blew it and now you'll never know.
Go to church and pick up women. Usually they don't get drunk and act crazy like someone you already know.

coachTanthony · Answer

No but I would make sure she gets home safely and let her know the next day it's not going to work out.

Wetdreamz · Answer

Not that unlucky but did once In fact experience a situation where I was put on a legit blind date, (I was young) and when she arrived I notice a girl who was looking around and then she called, heard my phone ringing, and my immediate disappointment that was too much to contain was simultaneously met with the same look she made when she saw me.

Same race but different side of the tracks.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I dated a girl who really liked to drink. We went to a concert one night at a small venue. The seating was a bunch of tables. There were people at the next table she she started talking to. She was totally ignoring me and just talking to these other people. She even told them we would give them a ride home after the concert. I was sort of pissed off.

zagor · Answer

No, but once when I went out with some co-workers one of them asked me to take her deaf (non-co-worker) friend out on the floor for a dance. When we were dancing she started basically humping the rail while standing in front of a guy sitting at a table and staring at him. It was kind of embarrassing.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Yeah. No issue, as long as you remind her who’s cock will be cumming in her at the end of the night.

DextroShade · Answer

You handled that perfectly because she's recreational use only. This is the type of woman who would cheat on you and embarrass you if you took her seriously.

Dongie · Answer

Sorry I didn't read any of that because  yes  that's happened to me and she left with the guy. But I'd already walked away to the bar.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah but it was purely funbto a drink or free dessert from a waiter (I tipped more than enough to redress the balence)

Anonymous · Answer

That's why you always carry a vial of eyedrops with you. Next girl who does that: put a couple of drops in her drink.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Never seen that before.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope

JayBones2469 · Answer

No I have not

You ever been on a date with someone that got tipsy or drunk and then they started flirting with other people in front of you?

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