Search Results: how to act on a first date

Did I run him away?

This guy I met on a dating site took me on a couple dates but was extremely inconsistent so I told him about it. He just left me on read. He asked for a second chance months and tried to change his behavior and he did...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Four Types of Women that Men Should Absolutely STAY AWAY From!

Hey, what's up, this is your Daily Alpha Dating Coach, known as Dr. Hostboy. Today I am going to go through the four types of women that any reasonable man would absolutely stay away from. Literally only stupid men and...

hostboy__fastestlaps

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Attracted to older men as a young woman?

I'm 32 and he is 46. I have dated 30+ men who are either my age or slightly younger etc. and a 32 year old guy, but this is my first guy that is specifically older. Age is just a number. Here is the thing- It...

barlowhavelock

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Is he used to getting sex easily?

On our 2nd date, the guy started getting really impatient and agitated for some reason. He wanted to kiss me on the first date itself but I didn't kiss him because it was the first time I had ever spoken to him face to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Explain the way u think finding a partner and dating should work and be as specific as possible please and thanks?

Like I have tried for years to understand your behavior and no matter how hard I try I just can’t make sense of it. Part of me thinks there is actually just no logic too it but part of me thinks that I’m just missing...

Gangactivities911

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Break Up & Divorce

Girls, I ran into my ex-gf for the first time in 2 years and she acted awkward. What does it mean?

I saw my ex yesterday and I feel good. We broke up 2 years ago. And haven't seen each other since. I'm 29 and she's 36. We had a fight in February, before the pandemic started and then by May '20 it was official....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I saw my ex-gf for the first time in 2 years and she acted awkward. Is she still mad at me?

So, I saw my ex yesterday and I feel great. We broke up 2 years ago. And haven't seen each other since. I'm 29 and she's 36. We had a fight in February, before the pandemic started and then by May '20 it was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are we? He doesn't know and neither do I?

Known him for about 10 months. We met at my job. He asked for my number and told me I was pretty. So we began texting and he called me. From there we called and texted pretty much everyday. He wanted me to come over to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shouldn’t grown women be called out for flaky immature behavior?

I had a 33 year old woman give me a last second bs lie on why she couldn’t show up on a first date yesterday. She said she was feeling sick but I’m almost sure she’s lying. It was just the way she said it. I never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

I'm really don't feel ready for a family yet, doesn't our biology suck?

I don't feel ready for a family at the age of 19. It's only been a year since my HS graduation. Sometimes I like playing video games, chess, going to movies with friends, reading books, going to parties, etc....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Why would a guy use tongue for a first kiss?

I have dated this guy for about a month and we didn’t kiss until recently, but it was surprising cause he just went from 0-100 and basically stuck his tongue in my mouth and I wasn’t expecting it! he asked me if he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He asked for space, is giving him complete, no contact, space two weeks after he initially asked for it to late?

We dated for about a month+ (2+ months now) before he asked for space. I met him through a matrimony app. He was totally into me and from the first date acted and stated he wants to be in a relationship (boyfriend &...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said he doesn't want to hurt me?

I started talking with this guy who said he liked me and wanted to get to know me. I said ok I'll give him a chance. He would text me almost all day, give me a lot of compliments. We have talked on the phone, and then one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should a girl do if she had just broke up with a guy close to a year for not being honest and who is the opposite from him who treats her?

If a girl broke up with a guy after 7–8 months for not being honest and opening up after many attempts to allow him to open up on his own but he acts too relaxed in the relationship and doesn’t care to open up. Until an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get her to stop acting like she hates me and admit her true feelings to me?

I have a huge crush on this girl named Sarah. She's the most beautiful girl in the world. And not only that, she's a very intelligent and driven woman. When I first got to talking to her, I thought I saw a spark of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

The OTHER Last Abortion and "Pro-Life is Stupid" Argument I Feel Like Having

A response to this user's "Abortion is wrong, why is this a debate" post. I've already written about this two weeks ago. And I also wrote about this even before that. But this damn issue won't die and I'm once again...

MCheetah

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How would you handle an attempt to reconnect after all of this?

So a few years ago at Uni, I dated a classmate named L (I know, I know). Her close female friends were already friends with me before we started dating, particularly one named D. A few months go by and my relationship...

When_It_Reigns

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Friend says he doesn’t know how he feels, what does it mean?

I’ve been good friends with a guy from work (we don’t work at the same place, just the same company) for a couple of years now. We’ve been texting daily but in the last year gradually started doing things together. He...

Grania

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