Search Results: i gave out my number to other guys

I'm 27 and a Christian and basically grew up in my church. I love it. Last year, I met a guy named Isaac. He's a year younger than I am. For the past year we would say hi to each other but would be too busy to have an actual conversation. Two weeks ago, we actually had our first conversation in person even though we met a year ago. He said he wanted to get together and go eat so he asked me for my number. I gave it to him. I wasn't eager on texting him because I didn't want to get my hopes up. He text me that same day but didn't respond all last week. I saw him yesterday at church but he was just on his phone and he was looking at me and smiling. I thought it was weird because he would get close to me but not say hi, he just kept doing that... Yet he didn't text back ( and I text him once last week after he didn't respond and nothing). After service, he said hi to my brother and THEN said hi to me. He told me he was sorry to not text me because he has two fellowships he leads and two ministries he's a part of. Plus, he got a new job. He did text me more last night and this morning but I'm confused. Why would he ask for my number if he's acting like this?

Is he interested?

Imagine an event where no one knows each other and this guy came in and started talking to all the women at the event including you but when there was an opportunity to talk to other women he would do it and try to engage in conversation with all the women at the event

but afterwards he asks for your number and asks you on a date. Would you give it to him?

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really really well but I didn’t sleep with him as wernt officially dating, we spoke for months after but I ended up going travelling& when I got back he had a girlfriend, I ended up in a 3 year relationship but then we both somehow ended up single at the same time, he contacted me (as must have seen I deleted all photos of ex) we went on a date and the date was just amazing I can’t explain the butterfly feeling he gives me. Still didn’t sleep with him as I’m old fashioned and we weren’t exclusive.. anyways after the date I got back with my ex and we didn’t speak. A year later I’m single & he gets in touch asking if I’m okay and randomly turned up at my house with flowers to cheer me up. we end up talking for a few weeks and he’s asking me why I never make effort to talk to him and why he’s always chasing me (he’s a basketball player so I’m kind of wary that he’s talking to loads of other girls & I’m a bit shy I’m nowhere near as hot) by the way we still haven’t had sex but just having a really nice connection. Again he goes radio Silent on me.. so fast forward a few months and he rings me drunk saying I’m the only person he’s ever loved and he’s so nervous around me etc.. I thought I would make more effort with him so I start finally messaging first and stuff and we plan to have a night away and we talk about having sex & it gets quiet passionate. then again he goes radio silent. so a month goes by & after hearing nothing from him he pops up merry Christmas I love you & one day your going to be my wife which is random as hell since he practically ghosted me twice this year? Then after talking every night on the phone he’s gone silent again? am I reading this all wrong does he even like me or what? or am I just not making enough effort? & no he doesn’t have a wife or a girlfriend I know his family