I’ve been at this job for 4months and I didn’t mean to try to date anybody or like anybody like my last job I talk to the guy before him and we only talk for like a week and he made a big deal out of it and he’s done this to other women And the guy I like my best friend he caused all this drama between us for no reason because he got jealous even though he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore and now everything has kind of settled and the guy I like my best friend doesn’t care what the guy I talk to for a week thinks but at the same time it’s like he’s so wishy-washy and this is why I don’t usually talk to guys with kids because It’s like once a week when it’s just him and I working alone and his friends and my friends aren’t there. He hangs out with me on lunch this week he gave me his number yesterday we video chatted for three hours and then it’s like I don’t know if what my friend says is true, that I am probably giving him mixed signals, which I think I am because I know that , if I get too close to him at work, I’m just gonna end up flooding out my feelings. I’m just going to pour them all over him and I know that he is dealing with his baby mama and the drama with his parents and he’s down because he doesn’t have his own place and he can’t really see his daughter and he told me yesterday that he feels the vibe between us and if he had his own place, we would already be talking and it’s back-and-forth because I don’t have my own place either And it’s just like I don’t know what to do because it’s so hard to be around him at work because it’s like the more we talk and the deeper we get I can’t be around him and hold back my feelings because I feel like I’m about to explode yesterday and last Sunday he was just so deep and emotional and told me things he doesn’t tell anyone and then the rest of the week it’s nothing and I don’t know what to do anymore! Help me!
I am crazy about my best friend at work, what do I do?
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It's not OK to date coworkers but if you really want to, just tell him how you feel. You'll never know until you do
He already knows how I feel and he said exactly that dating coworkers gets messy! Because when we started talking, the guy I talk to for a week came up to him and asked if he was my boyfriend and then made it a big deal and kept bothering him
Don't fuck your coworkers. Never works out the way you think it will
Yeah, I’m kind of getting that. Like one of the girls got pregnant and it’s very very messy.