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Search Results: pursuing him
How can I get him to pursue me?
I met a guy at a work conference. We hit it off as friends straight away and have been talking for around a month via text. I told him a few weeks later that I fancied him and I had been thinking about him a lot. He...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does this mean there is something wrong with me inside?
When I was in university and aiming for high grades, I viewed my acquaintances and classmates as competition. When I was pursuing a career, I viewed my predecessors as competition. When I wanted a promotion, I viewed my...
Is the Kingpin the Marvel version of the Penguin?
So there have been many comic book copycats over the years. Thanos and Darkseid, Catwoman and Black Cat. And then of course we have Deadpool and Deathstroke. One whose real name is Wade Wilson and the other being Slade...
WestfieldHyperdome
Xper 5 Age: 29 Girls, fit academic lesbian 29 still single. how do I diagnose WHY?
I cannot tell what MATTERS anymore as contributing factors for why I'm still single. facts: 1. I'm a retired athlete who still has a bfp of 20%. 2. I am an ex [petite] model who left the industry to pursue my education....
pollysocket
Xper 2 Age: 29 
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Xper 4 Age: 29 Do you find that the people you are attracted to are also attracted to you?
Some of us “got it”. Some of us have to work for it. Are the people you’re attracted to generally attracted to you in return? Or do you have to woo them? What about the reverse? Are you often pursued by people whom...
AnnyMouso
Xper 1 Age: 35 How can you tell whether a guy is out of your league?
I’ve had guys that pursued me hard, but won’t commit or they are already in a relationship. Whenever a guy refuses to commit, I assume that it is because they think they can do better. How can I determine if the men...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do people tell me that I'm a great guy?
I get these types of comment from both men, and women, (doesn't matter if they're pursuing me, or not), and I don't really see it. I'm just a guy trying to get through life like everyone else. I don't think I'm that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I contact this guy, is it possible he still thinks of me?
I met this guy on bumble during his neurology residency two years ago and we connected extremely quickly and well emotionally and romantically. We only spoke for 2.5 weeks, but got very close & we planned a date to an art...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can we talk about how different a man is prior to sex & post sex switch up?
Men seem so sweet, attentive, and pursuing you. His actions match his words. Then as soon as you give up the goods the cookie. He turns into a completely different man. Dr. Jekyl and Hyde switch up. They become the...
Katebfun
Yoda Age: 40 How to raise a boy to become an independent Man and not a Mama's Boy?
I have a younger brother whom I'm very close to. He's only two and a half years younger than me. We were raised by the same parents and live in the same house until I moved out but we couldn't be more different. I'm...
beenherebefore
Yoda Age: 36 How do I stop assuming that I've a crush on someone when I admire their qualities?
It's an irritating habit. I'll explain with examples. At my college there was a senior who was very good at studies, he also was really eloquent and spoke very well in meetings/assemblies. I really admired these skills so...
Anonymous
(18-24) Did I do the right thing or am I being weird?
A co worker was interested in me. He asked for my number. We talked (mostly only at work and text) and got to know each other for a little while. We would sit together on our lunch breaks, share lunch, greet each other...
Anonymous
(25-29) Where is the girl that was put on earth for me?
So I don’t understand. I am 47. And I’ve never had a girlfriend. Not for a lack of trying. But I’ve tried church, online, at work, hobbies, and I’ve never been past one date with a girl. Just recently, I met someone who...
Lonelyguy4
Xper 1 Age: 48 I called him out his name, what are your thoughts about this?
We’ve been on and off for three years. He’s been inconsistent, hurt me, and rarely showed remorse. Recently, he’s been trying to improve, but I still struggle to forgive his past actions, like ignoring me, disrespecting...
Anonymous
(25-29) How would you men behave if you are interested in someone and want to hide?
How would you men behave if you are interested in someone and want to hide? How would me behave when they have developed feelings for someone but need to hide it? For example if either of you are in a relationship or...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why? What does he want? he is 28? is he gone for good?
we were ok the first trip he was ok 8 months he came back home and after 2 months told me i should have done x, when he said he could be their for me and I didn't do it. 2 weeks later he dumped me via text telling me not...
Anonymous
(25-29) I called him a bitch and I regret it, should he forgive me since he has hurt me a lot in the past?
This guy I’ve been seeing on and off, has finally decided that he wants to pursue a relationship with me. While we were dating for the past three years on and off, he has been inconsistent, has said and done many hurtful...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, how should I go about a new crush?
Over the weekend my friend and I went to the bar and bumped into a group of guys that happened to involve her ex boyfriend and his friends. For context I had never met any of them until that night. We linked up with them...
Anonymous
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