Can we talk about how different a man is prior to sex & post sex switch up?

[Katebfun]

Men seem so sweet, attentive, and pursuing you. His actions match his words. Then as soon as you give up the goods the cookie. He turns into a completely different man. Dr. Jekyl and Hyde switch up. They become the complete opposite, cold, detached and some even ghost and bounce out.

[Screenwriter]

I think this is likely the case when people are serial hookup artists.

Some men are in it to win the cookie, and then they move on to the next victim. So the cold act after sex is, "I'm done, bitch. Boom cha ca laka!"

So, it pays to take it slow and get to know who you're with. If you give it up quickly, in many cases men skip out just as fast.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I concur!
Though I'd remove the term artist in the first sentence, craftsmanship is okay but arts... No.

But it's a common debate I have with English, as a language, where many things seem to be qualified as art and artists, for reasons that I find intriguing lol

[Screenwriter]

@Maybe_Maybe_not Oh, not saying they ARE artists. It's just at term/moniker.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s because the power dynamic switches


Before sex the woman is making him jump through hoops


After sex she’s far more proactive about taking the next steps
So he no longer feels the need to be chasing all the time


The ideal relationship is in the middle


Sex will shift the dynamic
But if he remains sweet and interested after sex then it’s all good he wants to move forward

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's called being goal-oriented? Is he an engineer?

Just kidding. What you describe talks about a manipulative perspective used, and from such a perspective, an intercourse is a trophy, but so would be friendship, or flatteries, or money. So would be anything you own or give, concretely or figuratively, that such a profile wants to conquer.

[Jennz6]

After he gets in your panties he isn’t interested in you as much

[bowenw]

That sucks that you've had problems with guys like that. I believe I'm more sweet and attentive afterwards.

[WonderingManII]

I think it depends on the guy. I doubt all men are like that. But probably the ones that just want sex but no commitment are probably like that.

[oldpigg]

Libido makes women appear more attractive than they actually are, and makes men cheesy, but after an orgasm, they come back to their senses.

[HelpfulGirlll]

Sadly, actions after sex reveal true character, not initial intentions.

[NathanDavis]

we could... if you rephrase it to the men who do this

[jahaims]

You have never heard of post nut clarity? by the way if the guy does that he isn't into you.

[MasterKS]

Its exactly like how much you want food before when you are hungry and when you have and full stomach.

[Anonymous]

Same thing happens when women get the ring lol

[Danny_dan92]

That’s called a player.