I met this guy a while back. For weeks, we were talking all day every day, occasional calls/video chats. We started hanging out and started sleeping together. Ever since then, our communication hasn’t been the same. We still talk, but barely during the week, mostly on the weekends and we’ll hang out on weekends. When we do hang out, he’s very affectionate. He works a lot, and travels for work, but we were talking all the time while he was traveling when we first started talking. I’m having a hard time understanding what’s going on now? What changed? (Yes, I know what changed is that we slept together, I’m just trying to understand the change in communication and what it could mean).
Expanding upon why communication has changed, you've lost the feminine mystique. Before a man "knows" you, you're on a pedestal of sorts, but once he sleeps with you the rose-colored glasses are off, and you're just a regular person- who has far less desire to speak to incessantly.
This is the point where many guys realize they don't even like the girl; so, you're at least better off than that.
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It means you are too much with the communication. Guys do not like to communicate. You drive us crazy with that insecure shit... It's the quickest way ever to get ghosted or left on read and responded too every other day. :-)
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A man's interest pre and post sex tells you a lot about how much he likes you.
If the interest stays the same or intensifies he really likes you.
If it tapers off you are at best fwbs or on the out and out.
He got what he wanted
You probably shouldn’t have given it up
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