Guy changes after moving away?

Starwatcher57

I (37F) am talking to a (38M) when we used to live in the same city we talked (phone, messager & text) all the time, hung out often & had sex majority of the time. Now that he's moved it's changed. We don't talk often sometimes small text here n there then nothing on the calling end. To me communication is important especially when you live in a different state. But he recently told me he doesn't need as much communication as I need to feel connected. So my thing is if he didn't need it then why was he talking so much when we lived in the same state. Never mentioned it before. But he's said "physical touch," is important to him to feel connected (said this from the beginning) but we can't have that bc he's in a different state. So sex is out the window & communication is minimal. Abs that's caused issues on my end bc how am I supposed to feel connected with him when he won't talk to me. Like he'll have moments where he can call but won't call. Then when we do I'll tell him something and he'll forget then act like I didn't tell him. This last time talking 3 days ago about renting a 4x4 for a trip saying I'll get back to him if I can afford it bc I had $7K in jeep repairs, bought a new dishwasher & washs machine bc they broke. So 10K in left than a month. So I get back to him to say I can't then had a whole conversation on the phone. Hung up... couple of days later he ask me again "am I renting them," told him no and said you forgot we talked about it. I remember everything we talked about. But he got so mad at me and said "I have half conversations in my head & answer them then talk (texted) to him with attitude. Guys, would you just ignore the talk to yourself comment or have him explain it? I feel like that crossed a line and was rude/ cold. What would you do in this specific situation?

Guy changes after moving away?
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