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A woman couldn’t really date a guy that worked at McDonald’s or didn’t earn money unless he’s in college. A man’s career and money are so important. Not to mention women put a lot of emphasis on things a man actually cannot control like height. they put your human value on these things.
Men don’t do this.

Men just care if the girl is pretty and nice. There’s endless pretty girls and it just goes to show that men actually like the girl for her. For actual genuine reasons. The bar is so low for men.

Every god dang time! lol

Just to be clear its ok to have preferences but some dudes (and women) take it wayyy too far, even assuming things about the women getting these things. Like slutshaming them or thinking they're easy for example. I wonder if you press them on it what they really think about women in general? it's probably not pleasant. they all tend to vote a certain way too...

https://medium.com/@karmenkingery/why-socially-conservatives-especially-men-seem-to-dislike-womens-tattoos-63d4a0f4ae6d

Anyways what do you think of this irrational hatred these dudes have of women wanting to get tattoos or piercings on their bodies?

Read some of the dudes responses here to see what i mean: Should I get my nose pierced?

IMAGINE THIS SCENARIO: You and a boy have always been more than friends.. a quiet understanding, late-night talks, little gestures that blur the line. He finally says it outright and proposes something real. You care about him, but you’re not sure, so you ask for time.

That same week he goes out, drinks too much, and dials you. Your phone is already engaged with a call from another guy.. your best friend, nothing romantic, but it’s a long vent-session you don’t want to cut off. (Your guy) calls again. And again (10+ times). You see his name flash, your stomach knots, and you let it ring out because you’re not ready to face his voice right then.

He switches to text: IG, WhatsApp, short messages that get more urgent. You read them, guilt prickling, but you don’t answer. Confused and irritated, you block him everywhere like shutting a door to buy a minute of quiet.

Later the day you felt the guilt is louder than the fear. You unblock just enough to call. It rings, once, twice, and then voicemail. You wait for his call back... nothing comes.

The next day you hover over the unblock button. Part of you wants to explain: “I was on another call, I panicked.” Part of you freezes.. what if he leaves me on read? What if he says he’s done, that he’s moved on? That dread sits heavy, stealing sleep. You replay his silence, wonder if he’s already talking to someone else, feel the shame of your own avoidance.

"5 months have passed" (You were still waiting to fix) & beneath it all, another question: maybe you’re not just scared, maybe you really do need time and space to understand what you want before you try to fix what you broke.