Ladies, have you ever had a guy only chase you for your money?

[Finchie40]

I know some girls’ chase after guys’ for his money , but does this happen the other way around often as well? So have you ever experienced a guy chasing you for your money? I never chased a girl for her money because I am perfectly capable of earning my own money , and when I meet a beautiful girl , I pursue her for a connection and romance and possibly love , I don’t care where she works or how much money she makes , cuz I am not after her money whatsoever. I do prefer a girl that wants to work with me , so we can do more things together and live more comfortably , but most girls’ I am meeting today , just seem to want money , like it’s their main topic to discuss about , I know times are shitty now with the cost of things but topics of money is a turn off to me , because I don’t want to be used or taken for granted , I want a partner that stands by my side no matter what obstacles we face together. I’m I wrong for wanting that type of connection these days? I haven’t really been on the dating market in quite sometime , so is this normal these days?

[LEETSBEREAL]

I don't think it happens often as it's only happened to me once.

Although I can't speak for every woman so it might be more frequent now, today esp with a lot of men jumping on the bandwagon that we have asked for equal rights so that's what we are going to get. There has definitely been a shift in attitude from men towards women.

In my one case I did pursue a guy who I met through others who knew me. Never happens but this guy I couldn't stop thinking about him so I got his number. We went out eventually but I could see the spark was one sided he clearly wasn't interested. So I let it go. About two weeks later. He was pursuing me harder then I was pursuing him. It didn't make sense. I wear my heart on my sleeve so I wanted to think he couldn't stop thinking about me to but come on two weeks? I knew I had to think with my head at this point.

I called the person I got his number from and we had a brief chat they confirmed he wasn't interested as he had said that. We both did a bit of investigating and he had worked out what I did for work. Had worked out what car I drove. Where I lived and all of a sudden he was blowing up my phone. He didn't ask me what I did, what car I drove at and dinner he barely said anything to. I guess he assumed what I did 🤷🏿‍♀️ assumed he knew who I was.

The sick thing is if he did ask and I innocently told him he could of switched that on during the dinner. Then when would I of figured it out?

I thought in a relationship the worst thing that could happen to me would to be cheated on. No I was wrong. This for me was way worse. I was so hurt. I guess it's what men go through all the time.

So yh I think I am more like you not really wasting time on relationships now. It's just to much of a headache I can use that brain power to make more money 🤑 💰

[SueShe]

No, that never happened to me and is not likely to happen in the next few years. As a student, I have no income and if that poor guy would be chasing me for my dough, then he did not investigate me thoroughly enough to realize that I am not worth chasing for the money.

I have unfortunately been chased many times for other reasons and every time, I had to put a damper on those guys because I don't do what they wanted me to do. I am not into that kind of activity and never will. Chasing me is useless and futile.

[Finchie40]

Do you ever want to be in a relationship?

[SueShe]

No, I don't see any advantages to be in a relationship.

[Tomislav7]

I would never chase a woman for her money status or fame. Those are of very little interest. First of all, is she beautiful to me and second of all, but just as important, is she a good woman.

[NathanDavis]

I've only chased the tamales lady... once

[RandomGirl42]

If he's chasing me then he's gonna' have to take returnable cans 'cuz that's about all I got! 🤣

[Finchie40]

😂😂😂😂

[Qiero]

Lol it would be nice if the tables turned

[Wailee]

That would be funny