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The girl I met has a beautiful heart, cute smile and a sweet voice. When I saw her for the first time, I didn't get any feelings. She's just an other random girl for me. But once I got a chance to engage in a conversation with her when she was sitting all by her own, I started to like her. But she friend-zoned me. Then I started getting this really different feeling which I haven't experienced before. Like while thinking of her I get a hot sensation from deep down inside my chest (guys please don't make fun of me 😂. I literally have no words to describe that feeling). While receiving a text message from her, my heart beats in sync with the notification tone 😂. Once I asked status and she replied that she is currently single. Now coming to the point, I had this dream today dawn (12/12/2022) may be 6 to 6:30 am. Here goes my dream

I'm entering in a movie theater with my parents and my little brother. The lights are on, yet the movie is not started. There I saw my girl sitting alone, the row she's sitting had no people. On searching our seats, I saw her and she saw me. I waved my hand to say Hi 👋. She called me near her. After settling my family in their seats, I rushed to her. She pulled my hand and made sit next to her and hugged my hand and layed on my shoulder. Till that point she seems to be fine. Suddenly I heard her crying, looked her face. Her eyes were filled with tears, and at her lower voice she goes like : I can't wait anymore for you to propose, I love you form the deep down from my heart, but I won't beg you for love 😭😭😭...

I'm trying to console her by saying that stop crying baby, I too love you and so on... But she cried out a lot and hugged me tightly... Then I woke up. My confusions are

1. I know that she's currently single. Should I propose her? Express my feelings of love for her?

2. And if I did so, will that affect our friendship?

3. Is this all one of my wet dreams or something like that 😂😂?

Just a FYI I am both unmarried and don’t have kids. I actually want both but I have just never found the right person for that. There was one person I met years ago who could of been that person but it didn’t work out. She happened to meet me at a specific period in my life which was the wrong time.

Anyway get how becoming a parent can radically change your life. I have nieces and nephews and I observed how my brother went from a carefree assholish “bro dude” to a hard working responsible adult very quickly. He tells me that although he sometimes misses his bachelorhood that overall being a dad and getting married really is the best for him. Also he wasn’t serious about his career/education but he actually completed college a few years after his daughter was born. Him and his wife actually make a decent income with their combined salary.

My sister has become a mother too. She works in education and surrounded by lots of leftist unmarried women. Yes her and her husband are overall very happy they have become parents.

Anyway I don’t want to pot calling the kettle black given my bachelorhood/fatherhood student. However I could settle down with the right person. But if I don’t find her I’m also at peace with that possibility.

But seriously does being unmarried and lifelong childless seriously appeal to many people? Maybe it does in your 20s. But a part of me regrets not settling down with someone earlier.