So, you meet a girl... Attraction happens... both of you can feel it.. You want to get closer to her... but it turns out she's more on the shy / introverted side... she doesn't know how to really flirt or give you appropriate attention... subtle... On and off... Most of the time keeping a decent safe distance between you and her like she does with other people / guys... Basically expecting the guy should ignore all this and do ALL the work and know ALL the deep thoughts in her head and start initiating and approach her / start asking her out for romantic dates in a super charming way that would make her feel totally desirable and zero awkward or anxious... Of course that usually doesn't happen because not every guy is maxed out on social skills and confidence and a certified mind reader... There are even shy / introverted guys too... So time goes by... It's getting stale.. And you ( the guy ) start questioning all this and thinking if it's really worth it, she might be not that special... So, you eventually forget about it... Case closed.. and the world will never know... Meanwhile... You meet a bubbly / extroverted girl.. charming.. knows how to present herself.. Gives you enough attention.. Flirting / flaunting herself inviting you to make a move... Or even coming on to you and approaching / asking you out... And you're thinking.. Damn, what a breath of fresh air.. this chick rocks.. I can spoil her xD... Shy / introverted girls tho... Does it ever work or amount to anything? are they just too complicated? I've noticed most girls like that are usually single or settling with a guy they don't really like eventually...
How should you deal with a shy / introverted girl? Is it always doomed?
