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Had[36M] a successful date last Wednesday, ending with a kiss and also a French one. I left her[31F] with 'lets keep in touch.' But no message was sent from her either on Thursday or Friday, so I texted her yesterday (Saturday). I asked her out for the coming week, but she said she will be super busy the whole week... but this week she was available all days.. So In my eyes, a wishy-washy excuse oooor maybe she do are busy..

Then I said: 'That's too bad, maybe we should take it some other time?'
She answered: 'I'll be sure to get in touch after upcoming week!'
Good, maybe she will, maybe she won't.. time will tell.

But either way I smelled something fishy was going on here (hot and cold), so I checked her FB (we were already chatting on messenger), and found out her FB-status was 'in a relationship' with no person connected to it..

How big of a deal is a FB-status these days, maybe people aren't changing these anymore or are lazy/sloppy to keep it to date?
She's still very active/online on the datingapp where I met her, so I do suspect a some sorta of flag with red'ish shade here..

What am I supposed to do, IF she gets in touch?
Is she monkeybranching or actually single, what's your guess?

So the other day I got invites from my university for a Brand Development role and an Event marketing role.

1. Because I’ve already interned with the uni before
2. I’m really good at video editing and making media for social media.

I’m not really worried about the interviews, I’m confident I can land at least one of the jobs. The problem comes when my brothers think I’m wasting my time since I did a degree in Creative Computing (Gaming) and now to them seems I’m not using that degree just to get trapped in a 9-5.

I’ve been applying to game related Jobs since August 2023, improving my resume and portfolio but I’ve only ever gotten 2 interviews and never heard again from either. I’ve probably applied to 500+ jobs by now, so I was so happy I got an offer for two interviews as part of my universities new graduate scheme. My plan is to work for the university whilst improving my portfolio and apply to game related marketing jobs to show I have experience.

But my first older brother I texted this about says this I’m going to be wasting my time and it’s a trap that’s going to keep stuck in that job. It’s not worth it because it only pays £25,000 per annum. For a first graduate job that’s pretty good in my opinion, yeh it’s close minimum wage but in this economy its harder to find a GOOD job that pays this much especially when your 21. Anyways when I tried explaining that to him he just left me on read

My second oldest brother said pretty much the same thing but, that I need to value my time into my portfolio rather than chase money, which is not exactly what I’m doing, like I said I can earn whilst building my portfolio. I will say he’s is worried that I keep changing my mind about what particular what I want to do, whether its game concept art, vfx or UI, but I’ve been applying to all sorts of roles and have gotten nowhere so I don’t think I can be too choosy because who knows when an opportunity like this can happen again.

Thoughts?