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It's Tricky Tuesday, what's the best trick you ever played on someone?
We had a student intern working in our software group. Everyone, including her, had unique logons to the computer system. One day, we changed her password so she couldn't logon. When she figured out we had tricked her,...
What do you do when you know you're about to see your ex again in a social setting?
I was invited to an event and I accepted, not realizing the person I asked is directly connected to my ex. (Before I realized I offered to help out with the event, blah blah, so now I feel a little stuck.) Anyway,...
Do you think it’s stupid that my friend tells me the right man hasn’t came become God is telling me he’s been beside me all this time?
I haven’t gotten the best luck when it comes to dating and boyfriends. Every guy I was with it never worked out. I got cheated on, dumped it I dumped them. Why? Why doesn’t work? Some guy I knew say it’s because I’m...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can someone help me understand why women are looking for a platonic partnership?
I know this is a bad question all together. I do know there are asexual people. I have two female friends in my accommodation, who only want a platonic relationship. From my perspective they just want a male friend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you date someone that works for the same company as you?
I think I might have asked this before but I matched with a guy who works for the same company as I do just different departments. What are the pros and cons of dating someone that works for the same company as you?
Why do most black women refuse or won’t date outside of their race?
I have a friend that I’ve known since 6th grade. She’s funny, intelligent, beautiful, witty and kindhearted. Great friends, family but no boyfriend. She’s dated a while back but she only dates black men. I understand most...
Anonymous
(25-29) A a coworker that I’m no longer cool with told a mutual friend that another coworker stated that I’m obsessed with him. What should I do?
This other female coworker and I used to be cool, but fell out since she thought I wasn’t a good person to her for (feeling too sick to come to her dinner in the cold rain and ever since then she’s been holding a grudge...
Ccmama
Xper 6 Age: 28 My man was dm’ing someone with no profile picture on IG. I looked up the username elsewhere and it turns out to be a girl. Should I add her and ask?
Should I add her and ask if she’s the one my boyfriend is messaging or what do I do?
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I dumb for helping him even though his baby mother says he's begging her for sex?
So recently, I helped my boyfriend get his lights turned on and I bought him some furniture for his house. Oh well. And no he doesn't help me for real. It's just I'm nice to everybody. Even though, they never really help...
tempirl2012
Xper 5 Age: 34 If you were with someone who had a deceased partner, would you ask if they loved you or their previous partner more?
Or if you were in the opposite situation, would you tell your current partner the truth if you loved your deceased partner more?
Ad_Quid_Orator
Guru Age: 36 Why does he still message me if he’s not interested?
An old coworker who at the time our old coworkers thought we were going to get together. But then I got new job and sometimes we reconnected. One time after 2 weeks I left, he saw me at the mall and we chatted there for...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Does he like me or is it platonic?
The friend is an year younger to me and we are very close. Recently he has started hugging me for longer periods and lifts me up randomly, sometimes for me to reach things kept above my height sometimes just to show that...
Anonymous
(18-24) My friend is in love with me but I am in love with someone else, what do I do?
My friend recently confessed his love for me and he is a really great guy and on paper he is perfect for me. I tried to give it a chance, but I just don’t have romantic feelings for him. While he is pining away for me, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can you tell if a waitress is genuinely flirting verses being professional verses fake flirting?
9/10 she’s doing her job unless you’re extremely attractive then you may get hit on more often. If she’s professional, prompt, and friendly. She’s probably doing her job. If she’s rude she will get in trouble even if...
"Would you die for me"?
This was inspired by @HawkPerception who asked, If you died right now, what regrets would you have? We've all seen it in movies or read about it in grand stories where someone heroically or tragically dies for someone...
RandomGirl42
Guru Age: 26 Do you love or hate when friends act as your wingman or wingwoman?
Whether they ask to be your wingman/woman or not, do you love or hate it when they try to hook you up with someone? Is it annoying and unwanted or do you appreciate their efforts even if they don't turn out that well?
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, How many dates before you expect them to make a move?
Im a transwoman who has been asked out by a lesbian leaning bi woman who works for a 3rd part where I work (big place, no conflicts). We've gone out on what may have been dates in the past (3) before she found a boyfriend...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, I don’t feel like I am good enough for him, how do I stop feeling this way?
I have a severe case of multiple sclerosis and I am on disability. I use ability aids to help me walk. Ever since I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2019, I have put off dating because I didn’t feel worthy or like...
Anonymous
(36-45) How often do you text your partner?
I met this seemingly nice guy on a dating website about a week ago and we had a great date yesterday. I guess I must be anxious because I expected a quicker flow of exchange between us since, he gave me his number and, he...
BlackCat999
Xper 3 Age: 31 Guys, Do you think a gal is being difficult just bc she doesn't "register" that you're hitting on her? Was this guy really being so obvious?
At a reception. My young single friend (F33 never married) spots a guy at the bar (M~49?). She casually glances over & gives me the "he's cute" look. I gesture for her to claim the empty seat next to him. She goes all...
