Search Results: feeling sorry for a guy

What does it mean for a guy to accidentally send you a dick picture. Did he actually mean to send it or was it a genuine accident?

I met this guy on an online dating app way back in 2018 maybe early 2019, we went through a dating phase talking hanging out nothing official though just seeing were things were going, we just both weren't in a good place...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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I have a huge crush on a guy and he likes me, but this is the strongest crush I’ve had ever. Could it be more than a crush (keep in mind, I’m 14)?

I’m a freshman in high school and there’s a guy I like and he likes me. He asked me to homecoming and we had an amazing night even tho we’re both rather shy and self conscious (I’m probably more so but we have great...

HoneyBea406

Xper 1 Age: 18

Do guys actually pull back because of stress?

Long Story Short: I met a guy and we hit it off pretty great. From the very beginning, I made it clear that my intentions aren't to just hook up or anything casual and he seemed to have understand.. We hung out last...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask him what was wrong or is it nagging?

I was dating this guy for four months, we had feelings for each other but he said that we should not rush the process (we both had a terrible heartbreak in the past) and that we need time till we become official. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend lying to me?

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half now. We met at work at a retail job. I went back to college and we were talking and I could instantly feel he liked me too. He showed it and wanted to make me his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I approach girls (really bad case)?

hello everyone, im an 18 years old guy and my socializing skills are extremely bad. I've been isolating my self for the past 4 years, started being depressed about me not being able to get certain things done, been doing...

guapallovermykb

Xper 2 Age: 22

Break Up & Divorce

I can't tell if I'm really toxic and crazy like my ex says I am. Or if she is just extremely manipulative?

So ever sense are break up my ex who is also the mother of my child has told me numerous times that she hates me. She has cuss me out called me names threaten to put hands on me at one point. And she has call me a...

youdontneedtono

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Nightmare about my Ex. Am I feeling guilt or regret?

-Hauntmare [My college Ex] My college ex and I broke up 14 years ago. I still have nightmares about her. In this dream I am in a field meeting with my college exes mother. (I hated her mother. She was a bad...

thomual

Xper 5 Age: 45

How do I get out of the “meet me any Thursday”arrangement mess I made without alienating the guy I originally asked out?

So I don't know if he is interested but disorganized or uninterested or whatever but I can’t handle him apologizing to me once a week for who knows how long every time “ he can’t make it” 🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s the most stressful...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

So I don't know if he is interested but disorganized or uninterested or whatever but I can’t handle him apologizing to me once a week for who knows how long every time “ he can’t make

It’s the most stressful thing someone apologizing for something they have no need to apologize for but I’m told I have to accept it. anyhow it’s all so artificial and I just don’t like the assumption that just go onto him feeling sorry. What can I do that’s life 🤷🏻‍♀️

… and what if I meet another guy there and one day this guy shows up bc I did say ANY Thursday, I’ll be mortified. He will just think “ oh! I bet you I bring ALL THE BOYS to your fountain!!! Lol for real it’s just that’s my say off and I’m relaxed after I swim so it’s a nice time to get to know someone. 🤷🏻‍♀️ That’s all there is to it. It’s not a lair lol

I don’t want to say hey you nvm bc I did say any Thursday is ok at the sane time I do think there should be a tine limit. Maybe one month 🤔 lol I should’ve said the first Thursday of every month. That way I could have 4 guys a month without traffic jam 😅. I’m JOKING 🙃

I think to make it casual but unambiguous “this Thursday or next Thursday @ 8 pm”. That way we’d be done by now & no pressure is left. He could always ask me out after it’s no big deal. I definitely made it a bit too casual, it’s not good for anyone 😬

I will tell him I’m still ok with any Thursday but he seems overloaded (bc he keeps saying so) & just let me know if he wants to meet up On a Thursday. That way we are both free from the spectre of expectations 👻

When I asked initially, I wasn’t Interested in dating I just wanted to try hanging out so I couldn’t imagine complications, but I’m seeing how disruptive this plan is potentially.

To reiterate: I’m NOT asking how to make him like me or meet me or if he likes me or to get him to DO anything at all… I’m asking how to get out of this mess bc it’s stressful 🙏🏼

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How would a shy girl put herself out there to find herself someone?

So stupid question and some might say I must not be shy if I can ask the question here but I'm fucking shy that even I have to admit it. I just... well, I mean I'm only 18 so some may say I'm still young and to focus on...

river23

Xper 3 Age: 22

I think my boyfriend is tired of me and i’m so sad about it?

hey everyone, my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years and i think he’s losing feelings for me. here’s why i feel this way. every time we hangout he never really tells me “i loved hanging out with you today” or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My friend and I got kicked out of a frat party because of something I said. Should I own up to him? How will this situation play out around campus?

Me and my friend whom I invited got kicked out of a frat party. Everything was going good the whole night long. I was talking to people, having conversations and nobody ever conveyed any spite, anger, or aggression...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

My experience from finding a foreign boyfriend on a dating app...

Last year at school... I didn't have many friends, I was a lonely girl who wouldn't go out very often, but still a romantic person with a kind heart. In fact, loneliness killed me. My life sucked. I had chosen to withdraw...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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I've explained to a friend that I have legal stuff going on?

I'm also dealing with emotional distress that resulted in me shutting down my YouTube channel for 2 weeks. I've explained to him numerous of times I'm not feeling well an have been bed ridden a few days now. Monday, I...

cth2188

Explorer Age: 37

How do we go back to being friends?

I've been really good friends with this guy for a year now, and a few months ago something sort of sparked between us; we hooked up, and started hanging out more and more, one on one, dates, etc., I've been nervous about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why he won’t text me back?

so I dated this guy for two days we were in relationship for one day and then he broke up with me over text message. he said “Hey I'm sorry to do this through the phone but it's been on my mind that I don't think we'll be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy flirts with you but doesn't want a relationship?

I drunkily confessed to this guy that I liked him n told him if he wanted to stay as friends that's fine too I apologized to him for making it awkward and uncomfortable The next morning he texts me saying "I wouldn't want...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Me and my best friends long time crush are in love how do we be together without hurting her?

I met my best friend in October last year when I started my new job. She's so much fun to be around and is such a sweet, kind friend to me. We were both put on different training programs at work. On my training program I...

Anonymous

(25-29)