Me and my friend whom I invited got kicked out of a frat party.
Everything was going good the whole night long. I was talking to people, having conversations and nobody ever conveyed any spite, anger, or aggression towards me.
I made friends with several of the guys that night, but all it took was just one upset person who took issue with something I said hours earlier.
And so my friend and I were eventually pulled aside by one dude later that night who seemed angry and said he needed to talk with us.
He accused us of saying homophobic things and how that was unacceptable and how he doesn’t tolerate it.
Of course, being very clearly angry at apparently both of us, but still primarily looking at me.
Even though my friend wasn’t even there at the party during the time I made those “transophobic” comments, both of us got dragged into this.
But that was several hours ago when I made those comments. So at the time I genuinely was feeling confused because I couldn’t recall it.
And so I told him I was confused and that I didn’t bring up any topic related to sexuality or gender identity. Because at the time, I just couldn’t recall it.
So of course maybe that made me seem more genuine at the time. Because while I was lying in actuality, at the time I didn’t have the concious of knowing I was lying so I was in a sense, being honest.
And of course, the friend whom I invited defended himself as well saying he doesn’t hate anyone. Yet he was still dragged into this because he was the friend that I invited.
And so another guy comes over while we’re talking. He appears totally chill and wasn’t angry at all.
He said he was sorry to have to kick us out and explains to us that they’re not sure who it is but since somebody got offended by somebody, they had to kick us out since we’re the new guys and they needed time to investigate. And because they didn’t want possible tension between people who might think it was us (which it was)
So should I tell my friend what happened?
Which I thought was a very reasonable and straightforward thing to say. Its how I truly felt. Most trans people are bad at hiding it. And most transwomen can’t even be considered “attractive” by female standards
Because he must’ve saw me palling around with all his brothers and I was life of the party talking to everybody while he was in the back corner hiding, too shy to approach anybody.
The reason he came up with the trans stuff is cuz he had nothing, and he felt threatened by my success in talking to people.
