Is this enough to be upset over, because I feel hurt by my friends actions?

[Anonymous]

I try to always stick with plans I either made, or agreed to and only cancel for serious reasons.
My good friend on the other hand, cancels our plans like they're some sort of door dash order and it's getting old.
Not only that, but I don't bombard her with messages on Snapchat and the ones I do send she won't answer for days even though she's posting things on Snapchat...

She's the one who suggested we communicate through Snapchat!
I'm feeling offended that I'm not that important, and neither are our plans.

Yes she's disrespecting the friendship

No

[NathanDavis]

yes, this can be upsetting... so it is something I would bring up and discuss to them...
and if they just dismissed it, or kept doing it even though they already know that it kind of bothers me, well... then I would know where I stand with them and I might have to make some choices regarding the dynamics of such friendship

[TommyMountainFigure]

Honestly? I would probably stop sending her messages altogether.

[not_urmom]

I’d say try addressing this situation and confronting her. Don’t be too shy, but don’t be aggressive either.

[mandyfire98]

If she's that flaky, she kind of sounds like a fairweather friend to me.

[JoyGirl]

Is she really a friend, then? 🥴