Girl's Behavior

What's going through your mind when you feel like this, what do you truly want or need when you seemingly cry out? Too often it's really not clear?

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Girls, when you're having a really bad day, and feeling really hurt and wounded, and insecure and destabilized etc, and you have a problem, or problems, and you have a close male in your life, (that you're not in a relationship with), and you verbally (in a voice loud enough so he can clearly hear you) complain and talk about the problem over and over and over, to the point where the guy thinks that she's obviously hinting big time at needing his assistance or crying out for someone to help fix or deal with whatever problem she's facing, and the guy already knows that she wants to be left alone because she doesn't want to really talk or deal with her problems when she feels like this, but he's stuck in a dilemma because he can't stand it when she's so hurt, and he believes that he's identified what the problem is, and what the solution is and how he can help her, but he knows that she'll just push people away when she feels like this, but she keeps going on and on about whatever it is, and it hurts him to see her so down, so he approaches her in the best way he can think of as a guy, presents the solution or solutions in the best way he can think of as a guy, or even simply offer silent, but caring support, just to in turn get pushed away, verbally attacked and told to get away from her, and to him it seems like she hates him now.

So he might leave for a min, then come back and offer what he believes he can offer, and get pushed away again, he might try again after this or he might just try to accept the fact that he just can't do anything about whatever she's facing right now and go back to what he was doing before... But he can't stand hearing her so down and upset, and now he hears her going on about him as part of the problem too as if he was included in the first place and it seems like she just hates him for even trying to help, he sits there in slight torment wondering what to do, waiting for the problem to go away till it resurfaces later. Any advice?
Whats going through your mind when you feel like this, what do you truly want or need when you seemingly cry out? Too often its really not clear?
What's going through your mind when you feel like this, what do you truly want or need when you seemingly cry out? Too often it's really not clear?
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