Why can’t guys just be sincere on how they feel?

[Sweetgyrl2626]

I used to talk to this guy for a long time. We were cool for a moment until he put his friends and himself before me. I was going through a time dealing with a loss. I try to talk to him and he was aware. However he didn’t care period. So we stopped talking period. Then out the blue he got a friend of his to speak to me. By checking on me. I didn’t know who this was until. Like his friend pretend to know me. I realized it and block them. I’m wondering why couldn’t you just check me personally then get someone to do your dirty work. It’s sad. It’s shows me that I was on your mind the whole time.

[_Maya_]

I am finding it hard to believe that you are 35 years old. You are acting like someone that is in high school. You come off as entitled like everything should be about you because that is the only thing that is important. I understand you were dealing with a loss but maybe he didn't know the person. Are you upset that my grandfather passed away this year? I bet not. So if he wasn't close to the person he isn't going to be emotional like you are. Then you do the childish thing of blocking everyone. I think you need to grow up and act your age.

[Anonymous]

“Why couldn’t you check on me personally”, where’s the incentive when you shut him out because you didn’t feel like he was showing you enough care? He may not have even known the person who passed to the extent he’d be outwardly emotional at the level you want him to be. Then for you to act like putting himself first over you is some sort of selfishness is absolutely insane. Your peace does not override mine.

[Lionman95]

Because when it comes to feelings guys often don´t know how they feel about a woman guys sometimes also go through the motions of emotional roller coasters especially in seasons where they´re struggling with a relationship.
It´s not like guys always know exactly how they feel in every situations guys have emotions, too and their mood concerning a woman can change. It´s not like a guy either loves or doesn´t love a woman it´s not linear but dynamic. So guys can only be straight away when they have figured out how they think about a woman.

[Iron_Man]

I am sincere