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He kept texting with a female coworker for hours... I complained, he said he is not hiding anything. Then again and again did the same thing.

I continued to ask him if there is something I need to know. He continued to deny anything.

Then I realized that he is making me a fool and decided to leave a recorder in our office (we work together and there are cameras anyway).

Then I caught he talking trash about me to one of his friends. And then called him for an explanation.

He started yelling and calling me names, because he was secretly recorded. But didn't apologize for his behavior towards me.

Was I wrong?

Example: I noticed a usually very warm and friendly female coworker at my new job (who is a good colleague of my supervisor and maybe crushing on him, he definitely is attracted to her) being a bit standoffish to me and avoiding eye contact with me during conversation even though she tends to stare people in the eyes like a psycho.

I also noticed at university girls in lectures glancing repeatedly at me even though I look completely normal. Why do they act like this? I’m not even attractive to men so why do they bother looking at me?

Im asking because I overheard a coworker doing this to a very attractive female coworker he has known for decades and I know that he isn't planning on seperating from his wife and kids anytime soon. He is very sociable and since they have been working on projects together for so long he tells her about all his insecurities regarding work but sometimes he tries to shift the conversation to private topics. I know that they and a few other coworkers refer to themselves as a family and that they do activities outside of work so I don't know how to feel about that. I can't believe that he just wants to be platonic friends with her because he doesn't even have enough time for his own family and men are never nice for nor reason. What do you think? Could he have just been bored? He likes to spend time alone with her at work too.

Im watching this show (himym) and one of the characters was surprised that his wife didn't get jealous about a female coworker he was spending time with (not cheating). Then his two friends explained that its because he’s the “reacher” in the relationship and his wife is the “settler”.

This means his wife is the best woman he can get (he “reached” for her) thats why she isn't worried about him cheating. While his wife is the “settler” obviously means she settled for him. His friends told him this, not his wife.

Do you agree that every relationship has a “reacher” and a “settler”? If so which one do you think are you in your relationship?