Will my boyfriend speak to me again?

[Anonymous]

I went out Saturday night to visit him at work. He works at a comedy show but he had told me days before he had to go home Saturday night and couldn't stay with me after work. So we ended up taking photos together of our costumes and we said bye. He had told me Wednesday and Saturday to please go home after leaving his job and to not go to the bar with his coworkers because I can't fully trust them. I was ordering my uber but it was so busy uber told me no drivers available and to try later. I was worried because I was standing alone outside and bunch of men were approaching me and I told them leave me alone. It got to the point where I decided it would be safer to go to the bar where his workers male and female were at. I went there and sat next to female worker who knows me and I told her uber couldn't find my ride so she offered me a ride after bar closed. I was with her whole 2 hours and she took me home. Next day he called me angry that one of workers told him I was at bar and he said he felt I disrespected him, he had hanged up on me. He then called back 5 min after telling me to explain what happened I told him and that I wanted to go home but that was the safe choice for me. He then said to disregard what he said since I was with a trusted female worker who looks after me all the time. He had said if I was flirting around that he would officially not talk to me anymore. I have no idea who told him I was there or what exactly they told him. He then said he was calling back which he did 15 min after and he asked if I had fun at bar. I said not really because he wasn't there and I mention Brandon was in car of female worker that she was giving him a ride and also another female worker a ride and he said "well thank you so much for telling me yeah thanks for telling me. I have to go now talk to you later". I feel he got mad again after I mention male name. Its not my fault uber couldn't find my ride and that she offered other worker a ride.

[HollyK21]

I don’t know if you realize how toxic this can become.
The guy was probably hurt in the past and has trust issues, but that isn’t your fault and you shouldn’t be paying for what another woman did. It’s not good to be in a relationship where you’re treated like a criminal before even being asked what happened, and for him to say he doesn’t trust his friends I think the underlying message is he doesn’t trust you.
Like, Even if his friends did drunkenly try to flirt, does he expect you will entertain it rather than be loyal and ignore it?
He doesn’t want to show that dark part of himself yet but once he’s comfortable enough and feels sure you won’t leave him, you’ll see the bad, how some of us on the outside of the situation already do.

[boggboss]

Sorry why are u even with him he didn't even ask what happened before losing his shit he called had a tantrum hung up then called back do u enjoy toxic relationships?