Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months and we met via work, I however left the job in the first month we began dating because of my boss. In the first few weeks he told me the bosses used to tease him about being with this other girl from work and everything and naturally I was a bit jealous. Throughout he seems to mention her a lot and once I saw she had sent him a selfie on slack and I asked her what it was, he said she’s on her day off. I said okay fine. Then I started teasing him a bit about it and he would shrug it off and say why don’t you trust me I wouldn’t cheat on you etc etc. She was also the one who told him that there could be something in between us (I liked him and he liked me)
this time when he came I was napping while he worked from home and when I woke up there were some messages from her talking about the bosses. When he came he immediately closed the chat and when I would walk by he would close their chat again saying they were work secrets. I got a bit mad and he said I understand how it looks from the outside, you can look at them if you want to, I said no I don’t want to. He also called her boyfriend ugly once and she calls him brother sometimes
Am I overthinking it?
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Why are u uncomftble about her?
Because people at work suspected sometimes they dated or tease them about it. Her boyfriend is also uncomfortable with my boyfriend. She sends him selfies. It just seems like there’s no boundaries.
So you are worried he will cheat with her
Yes or that he’s emotionally cheating
And does he know you feel this way because at this point even if he is cheating or not your relationship is in a dire situation
Yes he knows I’m uncomfortable with their relationship
Meh not really sure what to say then as I don't see how your relationship is going to last when u don't trust him and he is hiding stuff from u even if its safe for work to avoid drama