Search Results: friends first

He popped up first in my people you may know?

This was before he settled down… hadn’t seen him since 15… no mutual friends, never had his number… nothing. He had been the first on my people you may know for a minute and I never searched him maybe once years ago.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is my friend overreaching?

I have one friend who always seems to have a problem whenever I get a job interview or start a new job. This started last year after she lost her job due to her own negligence – she would call in sick often and lie...

zee175517551755

Xper 1 Age: 29

Shopping & Gifts

Hot Wheels - Collectors here?

Porsche 911 Carrera Clip - keychain In 2024, a friend of mine started collecting. At first, I only wanted to collect the Treasure Hunts, but then I also started collecting the Hot Wheels cars that I liked. I particularly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Holidays

Dating again for the first time since 2019. And its not going well so far?

I am currently a 29F. I had been in a relationship between June 2019-March 2025. My ex dumped me, but in hindsight I am very happy the relationship ended. I took some time to really woek on myself. I have been in therapy...

LovelyBones13

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

What is wrong with this woman?

We've known eachother for years. She's very attractive and I've never pursued her. In fact the whole reason were friends is because she asked me on a date and I told her we would make a terrible couple but great friends....

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Should I find a way to tell him or not?

I had this guy friend. We used to flirt but nothing physical ever happened between us until recently. We ended up hanging out and hooking up. He told me that he was allergic to latex and would pull out. The first time he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why does doing the right thing feel so bad afterward?

I’m travelling and staying in a hostel. I met a woman there and things escalated quickly into kissing and making out. In the moment it felt exciting and validating — it was my first real make-out experience she put my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Did I do the best possible thing?

So I had a friend and we used to talk a lot. Now, we used to wish each other good morning and all. Chat and all like we are supposed to and also give each other some time apart. It was going all well. And now we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Holidays

Did you receive any Christmas cards or Christmas GIFs this year?

WOW! This is the first year that I only received one card in the mail and it was from my best friend from high school. But it was only because she wanted to brag about her wonderful life, not so much to wish me a Merry...

sage2021

Influencer Age: 71

Holidays

Confused about what this guy really wants his behavior is inconsistent?

I met a guy in 2020 when I hired him to do a service for me. About two years later, he reached out and asked for my number. At first I thought he was interested in getting to know me, but once we started texting, he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

How are you on your healing journey?

First of all I’d like to wish everyone a very merry Christmas and happy new year yesterday was not ideal as, I am an autistic adult, 48, I also suffer severely from intrusive thoughts and OCD. I did call 988 yesterday I...

Dbman99

Xper 2 Age: 48

Family & Friends

Dealing with past trauma, such as domestic violence. What are some options?

First time asking this after a lifelong of dealing with domestic violence. A friend said to see a therapist, but I’m not sure who to trust. He said you can try BetterHelp or other online services, I have no experience...

live2dance25

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend is blaming me for my SA?

My boyfriend is completely blaming me for my sexual assault, and it’s clearly damaging our relationship. I was sexually assaulted about one to two weeks ago. When I first told him, he blamed me, then we supposedly “moved...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is it disrespectful to call old school staff by their first name?

So when I was in 6th grade like 20 years ago, there was a man who aided in the class room. His name was Paul. Well, I've interacted with him many times since then. He owns a construction company, and has worked on my...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

I think I just had a Mandala effect!! Have you ever had one?

In `87, we released out first album, "Dock Of The Busstopp". It was supposed to have 2 p's at the end! Just now, I spotted this video that a friend our ours posted several years ago and it HAD the 2 p's on the cover!!...

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 58

Guy's Behavior

Is my bf’s best friend flirting with me?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend, his best friend (they’ve been close for 10+ years), and a few other friends. I’ve known this guy for about 2.5 years, and until a few months ago he was never touchy or flirty with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is my hatred for fake apologies understandable?

Here is why: My 7th grade female bully by the name of Massiel B Gaitan set me up twice with a fake apology. The first time she faked it for a week, only to then say she and her friends were never my friends, it was just...

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39

Guy's Behavior

Why would a friend downplay your position in the situation?

Guy A, that denied to have sex with after our first kissing started courting another girl C right infront of me the next day knowing I can see it. And we have been in no contact for almost 2 months but we are on each...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why would common friend say such a thing?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Opinions on “low maintenance” friendships?

Choice versus convenience Always late by an hour or more Is this just an excuse to be a bad friend? Never text first to hang out or to see how you’re doing

Anonymous

(18-24)