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So there was a spider on the wall (the biggest spider I'd ever seen) so I internally start freaking out and hurry to tell him, (I knock on the door and tell him about the spider) and the first thing he says is "so what im I supposed to do just hop outta the shower and get it?" And let me yell u it was the most annoyed insensitive tone I'd ever heard him muster up... by time he's outta the shower he gets the spider and puts it outside. Later that day I bring up to him how I didn't like how he spoke to me and that it was rude, he continues to tell me that it was childish of me to bother him in the shower and that I should have waited to say anything to him until he's out of the shower, that im a grown women afraid over a spider and that im too emotional and need to think first before I do and say things to him... how am I suppose to know what I should say or so so it doesn't annoy him or aggravate him... he's actually like this outside of the slider incident... like if he's on his phone a lot and I try to get his attention he will tell me to chill out or ask why I'm acting like that... it's really hurtful and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and can't be myself because I'm afraid he will react aggressive or insensitive... what do you guys think?

There’s this guy I kinda liked. He tried to get me to give him head and I said no. Then he kept being rude saying I should be easy. He kinda has a thing with my friend where he says he doesn’t like her and there isn’t anything. She swears they’re in love and he has no other options. I know he does like I’m not dumb. Trust no man lmao We were all chilling him, my friend (t) and his friend. He always asks me to talk, says my talking has gotten less and more boring. So I told my friend (t) to talk. He said she’s even more boring I want to hear you talk. She’s conveniently more attractive. She’s having sex with him, I’m not. But do I have a chance? I really like him but I feel like because I didn’t give myself up I’m less of an option. She’s my best friend. But I had a thing with him first but without sex so she didn’t consider it.