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Im normal weight (size 6) and this dude I slept with and wanted to see me desperately the next day said he couldn’t go on pursuing me because I’m too big for him and he needed someone skinnier so he would look dominant since he himself is quite slim (but at 6 foot 4 also quite tall). I was really upset about this and when I looked through his Instagram followings I noticed he followed many really young looking women with pubescent bodies (many borderline anorexic) that don’t follow him back. His best friend disclosed that while he is a friendly guy he tends to be manipulative and exhibits stalker tendencies with women. He still watches all my insta stories and keeps glancing and staring at me when he sees me in public despite rejecting me. The dude is 26 and refers to women as girls. Is that normal? Am I overreacting?

I've known my boyfriend for about 2 years, started dating a year ago and had a few blips on the way with a long NC from me for about 6 months when he was pursuing me.

We have been on again for about a month and we first were intimate about 2 months ago.

I wouldn't say he is low effort but he is medium effort and pretty inexperienced. He fumbles a lot but does stop things that bother me.

We slept together this weekend and made plans to meet the next day, Sunday at 4.

Well, he flaked on me then sent me "good morning" text after leaving me on delivered the entire day. He probably went out with a buddy.

He has never done anything like that before. I feel it was a power move to see if he can be lazy.

I can address it and talk it out or I can act like nothing happened (which he hopes I will do) and do the same thing to him when he asks to get together again.

They say I can show you better than I can tell you. Guys which is more effective to deal with this very disrespectful behaviour?

I AM USING THIS POLL TO HELP ME DECIDE.

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