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I had this happen a few moths ago. I had 4-5 prior conservations with this young woman. She never mentioned being in a relationship at any point (I was listening carefully for that). I very cautious with her because I didn’t know her age but I was guessing she was in her mid 20s and I was 40 at the time

I finally gathered up my courage and asked her one day if “she would like to get breakfast”. She smiled and said “thank you but I have boyfriend”. I apologized and said I didn’t know and said I wouldn’t ask again. I was disappointed but also relieved that she smiled because the last thing I wanted to come off as was an “old creep”.

But later I came to believe she was lying. I guess I get why. It’s the best way to spare a man’s feelings and also prevent him from keeping trying. But I really don’t like being lied to. Rather her say “thank you Joey but tbh I am just not interested in you that way.”

To finish since on the first one, I was out of space for the first one to finish so here we go:

His personality is yet charming but very slick and clever with his words but he says with intent and much sweetness in charm in approach in deliverance to be expressed for you in acceptance to start to feel a passionate feeling that no other man in your life has ever made you feel like ever before. He also has an old soul along with it which adds to his mystique and personality. He is a gentleman and a man who can possibly be perceived as a once in a lifetime kind of man you don’t see in all qualities that’ll almost put close to call the “Perfect Guy”. Undoubtedly, I’m not saying he is or doesn’t have flaws because he does, as do all of us, but the way he’ll grasp you closer to him in his own way, you would happen to think in your mind he is the closest to that notion.

When he tends to to go forth in his desire to prove if he’s worthy to be claimed as her King and Champion of her Heart, he gets time to get to know her personally but the most important thing before stepping into a relationship ladies and gentleman: You have to study a person during the time you get to know and learn about them as an individual. It needs to marinate and grow naturally between two people cause when you get to learn about someone, you always have to study a person like of their interests, their mannerisms, their personality and things they like, and who they are as a person.

Okay ladies, say there is this guy who is young, respectful, loving, caring, honest, sweet, affectionate, smart, and decent honest good man who is a smooth talkin kind of guy and has the mindset of the loves perception of what it is supposed to be and perceived to be as “True Love” to have a long lasting relationship with you for eternity for marriage to love you, protect you, honor you, respect you, care for your thoughts and feelings, and only desires a relationship with you.

Now to get in depth of a smooth talkin guy, he tends to come with the most unique words to say that would knock you off your feet and stands out on his own as a rarest of his own breed and kind apart from his peers his own age than the typical guy approach women like “damn, you sexy or you look good type shit, can I get your instagram or number” or what’s good shawty, you got a man… if you do have a man, he’s the kind of guy who doesn’t care and say I’ll take you from him or whatever, you know dudes like that I seen on YouTube who are young dudes in their early 20s or 19 whatever talking like that when a girl clearly is taken and not interested at all.

But this guy I’m speaking of wouldn’t talk or approach a woman like that, he tends to ask how a lady is doing, what is her name, compliment her genuinely, and wants to get to know her genuinely for who she is and learn about her as a person if only she’d be willing or gains an interest in allowing him to in exchange of her wanting to get to know him as well. He wants to know her for who she is inside and not for her body or appearance. He is the kind of guy who prefer the old school kind of love when he holds the door for his lady, write her love letters, bring her favorites flowers or roses 🌹, and having a picnic 🧺 with her in the park.