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Search Results: talking on IM
Men think about it.. do you think being told to "suck it up" is actually healthy when it comes to mental health?
I am going to get a wide array of answers, but please put your pride aside. I'm not talking about "suck it up" if you fall and break your arm. We're all human. We go through obstacles that are overwhelming, and sometimes...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I screw up?
I was doing rehearsals with this girl (single) and Over time I had feelings for her. Not only the looks but the personality, god! Today (since I got to stay till around 9 pm) I spent time with her at her flat till dark....
EJglitch
Xper 3 Age: 22 Why does my boyfriend have a screenshot of another girls instagram in his hidden folder?
I went through my boyfriend's phone (bad I know) and I went into his hidden folder and saw he had a screenshot of a girls instagram profile. He doesn't follow her but I saw her name on his instagrams search history. Why...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he have underlying feelings for me?
The guy I talk to offer me advice about pulling black guys, he’s black. He sent me this text but I feel like he subconsciously was talking about himself? The next text I was telling him about guys Im attracted to I never...
Anonymous
(25-29) This guy and I have been talking for 3 years on and off, we haven’t met cause we live far, just slightly more than friends, but he kept saying?
I like you a lot, and he gets annoyed when im unavailable or not calling, giving compliments and all that, i dint care much but i dont like it when people lie- he is on hinge and i found out and screamed at him called him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is a relationship just dates and talking to a guy and that’s it?
I’ve never had a boyfriend , so I’m bit confused what a relationship is like. I never met a guy that wants meet family, attend functions with me and my family , live with me, I’ve just gotten dates , text, kissing, gifts...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this why she hates me?
So im seeing a guy in my job at the moment. We are officially boyfriend and girlfriend but before we got together and before I came to the job he used to drukenly kiss another woman at social events. They never spoke or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?
My friend had a girlfriend but had a crush on a guy. She would constantly talk about him and ask me to read tarot on him. I told her I wasn't comfortable with encouraging that anymore. She also texted him and was...
Lalalove11
Xper 6 Age: 26 Should I make plans with him or no?
Been casually talking to this guy not serious yet and i asked him about Valentine’s Day and he said he doesn’t have a valentine. I want to make plans but im not sure
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he abruptly decide to end it all?
I was talking to this guy on instagram. We went to church together back in another country and he was dating my ex classmate. We never spoke until recently. he's a year younger to me. Im 20. We started talking so much....
Teaconfused_2023
Xper 2 Age: 22 What does he wants? Im confused?
So I like this guy from work and we were talking for some time. he was always interested and you could feel the chemistry between us. Bu he began also to send mixed signals and asking everyone for drinks at work except me...
Jayde21
Xper 5 Age: 24 What to do about someone who's always directing you to ways to heal trauma while simultaneously causing more trauma?
I'm sure you can tell that talking to someone who has such a lack of awareness will not produce results and has been tried before, im unable to detach myself from them. Not for the lack of trying but i have no control of...
virtualwasp
Explorer Age: 32 My landlord is texting me, am I overthinking it?
I recently moved in with my mom to her apartment. My parents went through a divorce, and I broke my shoulder and pelvis. I've been recovering at her place, also being a roommate in a way. My mom and I are best friends!...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people feel the need to force their lifestyle wants and ideologies onto others?
If you want to live in the countryside with absolutely nothing to do and live a boring mundane existence, good for you but stop trying to lobby others to do the same. i Know what im talking about i grew up in the...
virtualwasp
Explorer Age: 32 At work he stares at me intensely across the room while im talking to someone?
So me and this guy work 2 different departments in a casino but when he’s at his work station he will give me this intense stare while I’m talking to someone across the room… I will look at him and he will not pull away…...
Anonymous
(30-35) She said 'I love the validation, not you'. what am I supposed to do?
So we were onn and off for 10 years. I was the first to chase her as a 17 year old and she rejected. When she came back 4 years later, I treated her poor. So she moved away. Now I got in touch with her asking if she was...
bulleye
Xper 4 Age: 29 If you're the type to ghost people what would be your main reason for doing so?
If you don't ghost people then good on you. this question is for those who have done it or do it on a semi-regular basis. So what would be the most common reason you're like 'welp im not gonna talk to this person ever...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
What do you think if a guy keep talking about his experience?
So I met a man for hook up, made it very clear from the start I was only in to hook up since i was just a tourist and he also a digital nomad. He’s like very kind/thoughtful in a non sexual way like notice small details...
Lolalollll17
Xper 1 Age: 31 My single friend has been getting really fat really fast. should I say something, and if so what should I say?
im talking about a 110 lb girl looks like she gained like 50 lbs over the winter. im kinda chubby so i feel like an bitch judging her kinda
Anonymous
(25-29) Ex assumes I’m already looking for his replaced?
My ex and i were texting about our daughter and he randomly said “i see you’re already looking for someone new but it’s no hard feelings “ what is he talking about im not looking or actively dating nor do are we friends...
Anonymous
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