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Was trashing birthday gifts from my ex and ex friend reasonable?
Long story short: I ripped up a picture album of myself, threw away a ring, and stuck a book in a suitcase that I probably won't open again for a few months. Backstory: So one friendship ended last year, but she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does one girl feel distant now that I’m closer to her friend?
to explain all 3 of us live in the same area , both of them work at restaurants but not at the same restaurant. there both really fun , interesting and attractive. seem to get along better with one of them and go to her...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it weird that most American adults don’t understand health insurance or how any insurance works?
Insurance is a risk-management tool that transfers the financial burden of unexpected events from you to an insurance company. Instead of paying out-of-pocket for a massive loss, you pay a smaller, manageable fee to the...
Just_Ken
Xper 5 Age: 41 Why would a confident guy suddenly act awkward around one girl?
There’s a guy at work he does this, like stumbles over words, acts awkward, looks down but then other times will freeze, he is generally a confident guy with other girls so..,
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is the term 'people of color' used this way and who does it really mean?
who they tell you people of “color” are hmmmm look what they attempt to brainwash us what “diversity” is Why do you think they’re trying to brainwash us with this? whoa re the real people of color.. and why are they...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Am I expecting too much emotional support from my stressed long-distance boyfriend?
Is it too much to ask for someone to be consistent with communication during long distance when the other person is going through heavy stress? My boyfriend and I have been doing long distance for about 7 months, but have...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Is my coworker being a kiss-up or just smart for seeking a desk job?
So I’ve been with this company more than 3 years she just came a few months later, the first thing she said was I’m not planning on working here that long just until this and that, than she says I’m okay with few jobs on...
Anonymous
(18-24) Can I postpone my best friend’s 50th birthday party for exams without hurting her?
I want to get a job in my chosen field when I finish and the teachers said I can succeed, but it'll be very hard for me and I'll have to live and breathe work and studies until I graduate, because of my learning disorder....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should I apply for a job at my TAFE work placement as soon as I finish?
Assuming that I pass my TAFE course all in one go and I don't have to repeat any classes or work placements, I should finish in mid-September to early October this year. I am working really hard to pass my course. I have...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should I feel weird my coworker ignored me outside of work near the restroom?
I was putting cart away at the store and heading to restroom and glanced his way he seemed like he kinda looked but more on the phone either way I feel like if I saw him he must have seen me and didn’t even say hi I could...
Anonymous
(18-24) What single quality makes women attracted to a guy (beyond looks)?
What qualities in your opinion work? No whole package thing, just give one. How important is his handsomeness?
Anonymous
(36-45) She rejected me but spent the whole day with me—does she just want friendship?
Do you think there is a chance for improvement, or for her feelings to change towards me? Is it over, or does she just need more time? Will pursuing her work, or is it better to stay just friends? Two weeks ago, I met a...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Nihilist__
Xper 4 Age: 22 What does this communicate?
My stunning girlfriend of 4months broke up with me and she listed a lot of reasons. It was a very intense relationship and I apologised and agreed with her on things and promised her I’d do better. I didn’t beg her but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you ever feel awkward or guilty about being better off than friends?
I think class and wealth in the UK are far more complicated than people make them out to be. I wouldn't consider myself rich or particularly well off. Like most people, I still worry about money, dread checking my bank...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Time clock app keeps glitching and my boss blames me—what can I do?
My boss said last week I have to start getting things right with a new app that keeps track of our time at work. I had issues with it today again though. It seems like the app always glitches. It either won’t take my...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I set healthy boundaries with a flaky, always-late friend?
How do you deal with people who tend to cancel last minute a lot? I can tell she does this to everyone too, often arriving either very late (about 40 mins after the time we agreed on) or just using excuses e. g. something...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
NovaSpawn
Xper 4 Age: 23 How do I approach this girl at my gym who is my old friend’s sister?
about a month ago i noticed this brunette girl who was really hot suddenly appear at my gym , i didn't realise who she was at first and wasn't even sure i knew her at all but then i eventually realised she was the younger...
Anonymous
(36-45) Gym-goers, how many days a week do you actually work out?
How often do you click during the workout?
theskyrider
Xper 4 Age: 30 