Search Results: being romantic

Why can't some people respect boundaries?

There are some people who aren't interested in dating anymore and that's there choice - a lot of women have opted out of relationships these days and I respect their choice as I have done 13 years ago. I'm realizing that...

cth2188

Explorer Age: 37

Girls, how would you feel about men competing about being with you?

I'd strictly avoid even making it appear like that, but some other guy seriously first said he had a friend with benefits because she didn't want a relationship. Then he approached another woman telling her he was looking...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

What do you think of the black cat golden retriever metaphor in relationships? What are you, and what would you prefer to be?

I have never heard this before. Basically the black cat is the one being chased, and catered to. The golden retriever is the one chasing, is loyal and devoted to the romantic partner. I realized that I have been the fkn...

Lovelylady95

Xper 1 Age: 31

Would you ever do an open marriage?

Just saw a reddit post where a guy was divorcing his wife of 12 years because she suggested it, and it gave me the idea for this question. Wikipedia defines: "Open marriage is a form of non-monogamy in which the partners...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Marriage & Weddings

What do you think about marriage?

I don't value marriage even a little a bit, although I'm married and have a child. It's just a bunch of useless roleplays to me. When I talk to other people, including my husband, about marriage, everyone's response...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you still stay friends with your ex?

Its been a tough few months for me and my partner. He is in a very intense, stressful time in his life and just needs to prioritise his work. He has expressed this many times and its been 8 months now. We both love...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why do guys assume that I don’t like them?

So I’m a naturally quiet type of female and I’m not really talkative unless I’m around people who I like or who I’m comfortable with. But within the past couple of years of me talking to a few guys, 3 of them have told me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Can get sex (barely) but can’t get into relationships, why is that?

Until I turned 26, I remained a virgin. After finally having experiences with three women, each expressed that we weren't compatible for a long-term relationship. Recently, I've been talking to a girl daily for two months...

JamieRobinson1994

Xper 6 Age: 31

Girls, Do you ever lost interest in guys who don't try to move things forward?

When you start talking to a guy and go on dates, if you flirt with him and he doesn't show it back, does that contribute to a romantic spark not being ignited in your connection? Say he's on asked you out on several dates...

MarioFan200

Xper 6 Age: 25

Guys, what are your reasons for staying friends with your ex? Would you stay friends with an ex in general?

Hello everybody, I’m being stuck in a situation over the past month and I’m trying to understand it better so I can continue my healing. So the things are going like that: I’ve been dating a guy for a month, he was...

pinkchampagne97

Xper 2 Age: 28

Have you ever lost attraction for you partner? How did you build it back? Or when did you know it was unrepairable?

I'm steadily losing attraction to my girlfriend. She very rarely initiates sex maybe once a week, which has lead me to initiate less. I've tried things on my part being more romantic, going out on more dates, showing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does him being very sweet to me otherwise make up for these few subtly rude comments?

We haven’t met yet cuz we’re far away atm so this is just from texting. 1. He asked me to join him in his dream and when I said “If you want me to, I’ll be there waiting,” he replied with “no.” After his nap he said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of the financial trap of being single?

Now that my 20s are over, I just can’t help but notice how all of my friends have partnered up and grew in financial stability and prosperity. It’s made me worried and admittedly bitter. I feel like the majority of people...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you be dating without having said it out loud?

So me and this guy have been hanging out a lot - like seriously a lot - and that’s been going on for quite a few months we lose track of time, spend mostly time alone with each other and had a few more romantic...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do some men get so close to my face when I show them something on my screen?

This happened to me with people I was never close to and had no rapport with, for instance class mates, coworkers etc. I would show them something on my phone or laptop and they would lean so close to my face while...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys want to fall in love too?

Most guys are so nonchalant and disinterested. Does anyone want fun simple content love. Baking together, playing together, joking together, writing love notes type love? I feel like guys just don't have the same loving...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What do you think of men and women who have romantic feelings for someone that is obviously using them and they always bragged about the relationship?

I get if they dont care if they are being used but if they think the person had romantic feelings for them back when they clearly don't, then they are dumbasses or in denial or clearly think this person has feelings for...

Ryan210000

Xper 5 Age: 34